TV programs are undeniable, and it is inevitable that children will be addicted to this, but the mother couldn't stand it and shouted loudly: "How long have you been watching it? I'll still watch it!" She turned off the TV without saying a word.
Looking at the black screen TV, his happy expression froze on his little face. After a few seconds, he will show his unhappiness or anger. He is seriously dissatisfied and rebellious. How could the child be obedient at this time?
Before turning off the TV, the mother should say to the younger child: "You have watched TV for too long, don't watch it now, let's go for a walk, or play kneading games", and said to the older child: "You are not allowed to watch TV in 20 minutes." Give your child some buffering space and transfer behavior to other things.
It is difficult for adults to achieve "golden foot ruler, perfect person", let alone a child, no matter how outstanding he is, he cannot be comprehensive and excellent. A primary school student has excellent academic performance and is very popular among classmates, but he is not good at cleaning the room. No matter how my mother emphasizes it, he still can't learn it, so his mother got angry: "What's the use of studying well? The room is like a pigpen. Does your classmates know how you look like?"
The child was of course very ashamed: "What kind of person am I? Mom says that to me." A sense of loneliness arises naturally.
In this case, the expert suggests that my mother should say this: "Our Xiaohai is doing everything well, but the ability to organize the room is a bit weak, but this is not a big problem. Let's correct it." What a warm word.
If parents belittle their growing children without saying anything, the child’s heart will definitely be hurt. It is difficult to show your true versatility. Whether you are alone or with others, you will feel lonely. At this time, it is wise for parents to love their children with gentle words and help them with appropriate behavior.
Every child wants to get praise and affirmation from his parents and get little red flowers, but there are always children who are hesitant about what they do, feel uneasy, and dare not practice it. In fact, this is something he is not good at. At this time, parents should say just right: "You did a good job" or "work hard to do it well", because too exaggerated praise will increase the psychological burden on the child: What should I do if I don't do it well next time? Maybe give up trying.
praises children to pay attention to the process of doing things rather than the result. For example, if the child gets 100 points, the better way is to say "You got 100 points, and the mother is really happy because it means you did not make any mistakes and answered all the questions correctly", or "I did a good job in the exam, Dad knows that you have studied hard recently", rather than "It's indeed my baby". In this case, the child may think: If I don't get 100 points next time, I will not be my baby! Non-pointed worries arise.
Gentle language is so warm, like the spring breeze blowing on your face, filled with the sweetness of care.
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