Recently, some places have tested positive for , and some asymptomatic infected people with , and some schools have temporarily suspended classes, including kindergartens. On this day, several mothers in the same group met when they picked up their children home. The child had not come out yet. Chenchen's mother asked everyone if the child had slept with him in separate rooms. Some people said that the child had slept in his own room, which was very worry-free, while others said that he was still in the same room.
Just started chatting, the children came out of kindergarten and because they were all going home, the chat was temporarily interrupted. After returning home, in the group chat at night, several mothers continued to chat:
Lele's mother said, "Our child is more worry-free. He took the initiative to say that he could sleep alone. His father and I thought it was not possible, but he still slept in his room the next day, haha, it was more worry-free."
Tongtong's mother said, "I told my child a few days ago that he wanted the child to sleep by himself, and tried it all day, but it didn't work, and I didn't stick to it all night."
An's mother said: "I think this is nothing. It's early, it's late, it's late. How much impact can it have? Don't worry," said Chenchen's mother: "I thought so at the beginning, but later I heard that if the separation of a room is too late, it will affect the independence of the child and even cause precocious puberty. I don't know whether it's true or not. What do you think?"
You said it and said, some people think it has an impact, while others think it has no impact, and there is no need to worry. We talked for a long time, but in the end there was no unified opinion.
Different parents have different ideas and opinions on this issue, and men and women have different perspectives on different perspectives. Some people think it is better to be earlier, which can train children to be independent. After all, all kinds of competition are relatively large now, and some people think it doesn’t matter if they are late. Anyway, the child will always grow up. When they want to sleep in their own room, they will naturally know. Some people are more confused and don’t know when it should be more suitable. Will the child’s independence be affected if the room is too late? The reason why parents are worried that if they sleep in separate rooms too early or too late, it will affect their children. For example, in this regard, independence. After all, when children can sleep alone, it is also an independent in a sense. But you can think about it, does sleeping alone mean independence? Does it mean to be with your parents? In fact, this is not the case. Research by American children's sleep experts found that will not lead to poor independence when children sleep with their parents.
is actually the opposite, which may make children more independent and confident.
If you leave your child alone too early, it will easily have adverse effects on them. Because the child is still very young, I hope that my parents will be with me more. Suddenly sleeping alone is easy to be afraid of and crying , which is very insecure. , and even affect them, they will be afraid of the darkness and fear of staying alone in a confined space.
Children are still young and are prone to stomp on the quilt when sleeping, especially for children who are more active. If they are very young, they will sleep alone. The quilt is not covered well and they will easily catch a cold and catch a cold. At this time, their immunity is relatively weak, and it is not conducive to health if it continues for a long time.
. If you lack a sense of security at this time, it may be easy for to affect the child's personality .
So, when is the age of a child better sleep with his parents?
I'm anxious and can't eat hot tofu, Respect the growth steps of children , don't be too anxious. You don’t have to sleep in separate rooms with your children at the beginning. In fact, you can sleep in separate rooms first, in the same room, but the children sleep in their own small bed.
It is recommended to wait until the child is 3 years old to start sleeping in separate beds and in separate rooms after the age of 5 years old.However, this is not the absolute . It depends on the child's situation. This is not a task that must be completed before the child is a few years old.
In addition, it is important to remind everyone that it may not be very smooth at the beginning. At this time, you must pay attention to the method and do not attack the child because of this. You should encourage to . When the child successfully slept independently once, it is recommended that parents give praise the next day. As the child adapts to it and grows up, they may not want to sleep with their parents, but prefer to have their own room.
-segment room too late, will the child have premature puberty?
causes premature puberty in children, but generally speaking, sleeping with parents and has nothing to do with .
Generally speaking, if girls have secondary sexual characteristics before the age of eight, and boys have secondary sexual characteristics before the age of 9, parents should pay attention to it. Although it will happen sooner or later, too early is not a good thing and has a negative impact on the health of children.
This will affect the child's height . In addition to physical condition, it is not good for their mental health, which can easily lead to psychological problems , and may still accompany them when they grow up.
In this regard, parents should pay more attention to the following things:
Dietary attention. Some parents do not want their children to lose at the starting line and will give them some great foods, such as turtle , eels, etc. , or some tonics containing Chinese medicine ingredients , but the function of the children's spleen and stomach is not as perfect as adults. In addition, these things cannot be supplemented randomly even for adults, let alone children.
In addition, some parents are more spoiled, especially the elderly, who buy whatever their children want, such as fried chicken burger and other fried foods. However, eating them frequently will consume more fat and calories, causing to be obese . It not only affects the child's height, but also affects his health.
Children are growing up, and supplementing nutrition is necessary, but parents are reminded not to fall into misunderstandings and not to blindly or follow the trend to supplement their children.
To sum up, there is no absolute answer to the child who remembers how old he is to sleep with his parents in separate rooms. It varies from person to person. A little later will not affect the child's independence or cause precocious puberty.
