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Speaking of children's classic reading materials, we have to mention the " Education of Love " by Italian writer Yamichis .
"Education of Love" is very simple. It records the interesting stories and psychological journey of his fourth grade in the form of a primary school student named Enliko in the form of a diary.
I still remember that when I was a child, I was deeply moved by the great love interpreted by this book when I first read it. That kind of "love" is something I have been out of reach but longed for. The world depicted in
, what a lovely and beautiful new world is, which contains the love between teachers and students, the love between father and son, innocent friendship, and a deep love for this world and human nature.
Twenty years have passed, and I have gone from an optimistic, innocent and loving girl to a bad adult who is worried about my livelihood.
read "Education of Love" again, and there were mixed feelings and many feelings. Maybe life is just a circle and searching. In the end, what we pursue is not the right to love and be loved, an answer to the meaning of life.
01. The background color of life: it needs fairy tales, innocence and great love
"Look at how difficult that child is, people are still studying hard. You live a comfortable life, you have everything at home, and you think going to school is a chore."
Before, my parents always taught me: home allows you to eat and wear warmth, you have to learn to be grateful and study hard. But they have no time to care about how to learn, how to do it, and whether you are happy or not.
In fact, as a growing child, they are in a curious stage of exploring the world crazy, and they do need parents, teachers and society to guide them to be positive and kind, lay the foundation for their lives, and be honest and useful people.
If you don’t know how to guide or communicate with your children, then you can read this book "Education of Love".
The story told in "Education of Love" is not complicated. Looking at the world from a child's perspective makes us deeply feel: it turns out that the beauty of the world exists in our daily lives. As long as you feel it with your heart, you can experience the beauty and true meaning of love, and the world is worth it!
We often say that happy people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, and unfortunate people should use their lives to heal their childhood.
Just think about it, if a person has never been loved since childhood, how can he know how to love others when he grows up? If a person has never been respected since childhood, how can he respect and treat others well?
As Professor Li Meijin said in "Psychological Support": "All social problems are actually human problems. People's appetite is fed, temper is brought out, ideas are nagging, cruelty is endured by loneliness and helplessness, and shamelessness is concise and pampered."
There are many kinds of love. If you were educated to choose the best and be kind when you were a child, you have the ability to love. Only when you grow up can you be a warm and pure adult, live in harmony with the world, and be self-reliant and self-reliant.
02. The real world is complex: we have nowhere to escape, we need education of love
Real life is very complicated and not a romantic and beautiful fairy tale.
Even Yamiches, the author of "Education of Love", failed to live a peaceful life, but made life a mess or fragmented.
Because he wanted to concentrate on writing "Education of Love", he decided to run away from home, stay in a hotel, and keep changing his residence.
's move aroused his wife's dissatisfaction, suspicion and resentment, and finally chose to leave him. What's even more unfortunate is that the departure of his wife caused their son to collapse and chose to end his life at the age of 22.
Wife and child separation, family and family are destroyed, this is the tragic life of Amites.
After eight years of dedicated creation, "Education of Love" was very successful, translated into hundreds of words, becoming one of the most popular reading materials in the world, but Yamiches was controversial due to the breakdown of his family: He is not a good husband or a good father. He teaches others to learn to love in the book, but he does not love anyone himself.
The love in the book is beautiful, but the reality is cruel.Of course, this does not mean that there is something wrong with the concept conveyed by "Education of Love", but that it is not an easy task to practice love and live a brilliant life.
At the same time, the more cruel the real world of , the more pure love is needed to support our spiritual world.
Growing up slowly, we all know that fairy tales are fake, but those beauty and kindness exist.
When you are carrying a load, you might as well stop and look at the scenery on the roadside, use fairy tales to weave your dreams, bring yourself a little comfort, be brave to face reality but always hope in your heart.
From this perspective, fairy tales are the redemption of our real souls and can allow us to obtain a continuous stream of positive energy. The same is true for this book "Education of Love".
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