#Toutiao Creation Challenge# [Original article, welcome to follow, like, and comment] In reality, we often encounter situations where children are talking big. Many parents think that their children are lying, and they have developed the habit of lying at a young age. What's the

Oh, I have been very fond of talking since I went to kindergarten. For example, I am the smartest person in the class. All the children in the class are my good friends, and every child can't escape me... Whenever I hear such words, I will smile and answer: "Oh, you are so awesome, you are so awesome! " or ask back, "Are you so awesome?" She will answer yes with certainty, and then be very happy.

The most interesting thing about eating is the matter. Starting from the middle class, kindergartens will reveal their children's meals every week, and one day the CD will be a smile on their face. She reported to me that most of the time was on CD, but judging from the situation posted by the teacher, she only had one or two times a week, which seriously exaggerated the facts. But I did not expose her, but showed great praise to her when she reported the CD to me . When I saw me praising her, I would happily talk about the scene of eating in the kindergarten every day, what dishes were there, how the children interacted, and their interest in eating was growing.

Sure enough, with the encouragement of her family, she arrived at the senior class and went to the senior class to change the CDs in the kindergarten more and more times, and her performance in eating at home gradually improved, and her habit of picky food has also been changed a lot.

There is a need in children's heart, that is, the need to be seen, affirmed, and encouraged. The little child talks big, mainly to let adults see what he has achieved. Even a little bit, it seems to him that he is amazing. As long as we see his progress, we don’t have to worry too much about how much progress is, and then affirm and encourage him, then he will feel the response of adults and thus increase his enthusiasm for progress.

If we are too serious and focus our obedience on the exaggerated amount he says, rather than the achievements he wants to express, will be a heavy blow to the child because he thinks that adults don’t understand what he wants to say.

So when we listen to children's speech, must understand the key points they want to express, rather than judge with our thinking, because children's thinking is very direct and does not have such complex logic. For children, we might as well make it easier. Don’t be too nervous when you hear children speak loudly.

[Author: Ooh Mom, a creator of the field of tutoring and parenting, has two babies at home, focuses on parenting diary, efficient companionship, and grows together on the way to take care of the children. 】