read an article, which roughly means that an author said that many of the reasons for children’s inferiority come from parents’ denial. He refers to the spiritual chicken soup mentioned by many celebrities in "Montessori".
The simplest meaning is that parents should not criticize their children, or even if they do something wrong, we should encourage them and should not compare others with their own children, so that children will have inferiority . I don’t deny that encouraging children is correct, but blindly encouraging them is not as important as saying anything from the child. I want to ask the child what to do if he goes to school and society? Will teachers only encourage and not criticize the child when he goes to school? We can't chase the school teachers, and follow the teachers in the interest class to tell my children that they only need encouragement and criticism, right? During the online class a few days ago, there was a news report that a child was criticized by his mother at home and jumped off the building. I think blindly encouraging can only reduce the child's tolerance, and you have to criticize him when you need to.
These spiritual chicken soups make originally normal children sensitive and fragile. This is how society is like, with fierce competition. We cannot predict what happens to children when they enter society. These chicken soups only mention that parents are kind but ignore the most important reality. The society will not change. If you do not do well, you will still be eliminated by the outside world outside your parents. Therefore, only by adapting to society can children become strong, instead of wrapping them tightly from childhood and not letting them suffer any grievances. Sometimes letting things go naturally, not scolding too much, and letting children realize their mistakes is also a help to children.
