Hello everyone, I am Hu Junli.
Family education entrepreneur who accompanys mothers to raise their children scientifically.
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This is the 292nd study note: each time you work a little more, and the effect will be magnified several times over a long period of time.
is the main text of the study notes.
1, do more, accumulate and enlarge
"There are 10 bottles in total. If you smash 9 of them at a time, you can get 90 points;
If you smash 10 of them at a time, you can get 240 points."
I mean, the superposition of opportunities will amplify the effect of people step by step, and ultimately create a huge leap.
Just throwing one more bottle can achieve a leap from 90 points to 240.
Similarly, as long as you are a little better than others every time you face opportunity throwing (making choices and executing), you can win more opportunities until you win the final victory.
I suddenly thought that as the learning of children that parents care about the most, this theory can be explained very well.
Let me give you the simplest example, children memorize texts or ancient poems.
Some children did not memorize it at all;
Some children read it once;
Some children read it three times;
Some children read it once and memorize it once;
Some children read it once and memorize it once;
Some children read it once and memorize it once;
Some children read it once and memorize it once, but it is bumpy and need to remind you a few keywords occasionally;
Some children recite it once and memorize it once, but it is bumpy and you can remind you a few keywords. 2
Some children memorize words without any mistakes;
Some children memorize words without any mistakes and remember the author's information;
Some children not only memorize things, but also remember the author's information, but also understand the creative background...
also memorize things, just by working more and doing more every time, after long-term accumulation, the effect will be magnified countless times, and this is how the gap is widened.
Try more and do more. Can this behavior be achieved by relying on children?
Children in primary school rarely take the initiative to complete it because children still do not realize the importance of doing these things and the importance of accumulation.
So who is it? Of course it's the parents.
2, psychological limit
If a place was originally very confusing, then you won't mind throwing a few more miscellaneous items there.
If there is a little more, you will realize it and want to collect it. The same is true for human psychological environment, there is a limit.
psychological limit can explain many behavioral problems of children.
I often say that when a child is not treated well, has insufficient sense of security, and lives in an environment with more emotionality, he must devote a large part of his mind and energy to face the uneasiness and the emotions brought by his parents.
At this time, his psychological limit was at a low level and was not enough to deal with learning. It was manifested that he was struggling and struggling in learning.
From this, you can also simply make a judgment that children with problems in their studies must have other things, and their psychological limit is divided.
After finding this matter, the child will no longer worry about this and will naturally focus on learning.
3, family prosperity depends on accumulation
What does a family need to prosper?
is the sacrifice and dedication of generations.
The rich generation has been through hardships all the way, and the second generation can live a comfortable life;
The second generation will try again, and the third generation will get tickets to enter the upper class.
There is a generation in the middle that is playing tricks, and the next generation will have to start over again and suffer again and again.
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The rich generation should attach importance to education and take care of themselves. Don’t be busy with business and forget your family, and don’t keep the second generation away.
