The older generation advocates "stick education", and either beats or scolds children, and rarely praises them; our generation emphasizes "scientific parenting", respects personality, praises their strengths, and pays attention to children's sense of happiness. I teach you to praise your children correctly from three aspects. If you praise them to the point, you will find that your children have amazing growth and changes.
The first is to praise attitude,
For example, praise him for his hard work, wow, you practiced the violin for a full hour today, you worked so hard, baby,
praises seriousness, during today's swimming class, I found that you were very serious,
praises persistence, you have been doing this for so long. I didn't give up, I persevered, it was amazing.
The second aspect is to praise quality,
For example, praise kindness, the teacher told my mother today that you helped the injured classmates in physical education class, you are such a kind and good child.
praises independence. Now, you don’t need your parents to help you wash in the morning. You do it yourself. You are such a good independent child.
praises courage. Today I went on stage to perform the show and found that I was a little nervous, but I still finished it all. It was amazing.
praised credit. I agreed that we only watch 15 minutes of TV every day. You can really do it, you are such a good kid who keeps your promises.
also praises responsibility. I saw you holding your younger brother's hand when crossing the street today. You are a responsible and good brother.
The third aspect is called praise habits,
You can praise your children for thinking, wow, baby, you can think of this method to solve the problem, I can't even think of it, it's great.
praises the neatness, I found that your house is very neat today, and it is so well tidy up.
praises self-discipline, these days I found that you do your homework first as soon as school is over, that's true. Self-discipline, self-discipline, it's so amazing.
praises me for being careful. When you went out today, you reminded your mother to bring your phone. You are really careful. memorized these words and did as you do.
Praise children is just like criticizing them. They are also very particular and cannot be done casually. Although praise is mostly open-minded and does not require money or time, it has very good educational results. As long as you know how to praise your child correctly and are willing to praise him, your child will be excellent!
