I see many mothers whose children are not young anymore, for example, they are already in the third and fourth grades of elementary school. Come on, baby, mom hugs the baby.
In fact, children are not pets and they will start to become independent in the first grade of elementary school.
I remember my mother, of course my mother is already very old, she is now in her 90s. She never called me baby. And in my impression, I never held his hand, and she didn't let me hold his hand. So, develop a very independent personality.
But I often see many mothers, who are probably too young and hug them like pets. When I crossed the road, I was already in the sixth grade of elementary school and I was still holding his hand. It's hard for him to be independent if you are like you.
I am in Europe and the United States, and I rarely see European and American women crossing the street with their children's hands. Especially since he has been in elementary school, he won’t let you do it yet. This means that one loves to be petted and the other is petted, and it turns out like this.
If you spoil her too much today and take care of her too much, you will always call her baby. When she grows up and cannot be independent, it is your burden. Caring for is education, and children are not pets. Otherwise, she will become a lifelong drag for her parents.
I often say a vernacular explanation, when I was young, if he cried. When we grow up, we laugh. If he smiled when he was young, we would cry when he grew up. Do you understand this?
If he was too happy when he was young, he would be too happy and too noisy. When he grows up, he is our burden. When we were young, we strictly controlled him. He might be reluctant to let him go, so he would cry. When we grew up, we would laugh, so we felt relieved. Everyone understood as soon as they heard it.
When my daughter was a child, she was actually quite afraid of me. Because I'm stricter. I guess at this time, everyone wishes me not to go home every day. What do you think he said? He said dad, mom. You can get rid of this son, just make him the same as me.
I was thinking in my heart that I was too tired at that doctor. But this sentence reflects a point, my daughter thinks my strict discipline is right. It's too easy for us to indulge him. It's too easy to care for him. Not to mention a doctorate, you can practice speechlessly in college.
Once a mother is ignorant, her children are also ignorant. There is a saying that goes. When you look at a child, you will think of his mother. There is an old saying: "If you have a father, you will have a son." I told you that we can pronounce it as if you have a mother, you will have a daughter. In fact, parents are children.
I often see many children outside. I didn't know him, nor did I talk to him. Just looking at his actions, I could think of his parents, really. It's not very difficult, you see a child walking on the street. You can immediately think of his mother, who his father is probably. Because there is something we in China just said. Like a father, like a son, like a mother, like a daughter. This is how it comes out.
See another case.
A black driver. A white mother and son were carried. When he was in the car, the child asked his mother, "My mother is the driver, why is the color of his skin different from ours?"
Mom answered very well. She said God created humanity. In order to make the world look colorful. So we made different colors.
Later, when we arrived at the destination, the driver did not charge any money. That's what he said to that wife. When I was a kid, I asked my mom the same question. My mom said that because we are black people, we are destined to be inferior. The story ends. If my mother had answered my question, it would have been different from what you answered your son.
Look, mothers are ignorant, and children will be ignorant. The English sentence "No one is born rocist" is no one born racist. But discrimination against this and that is caused by parents' hearts.
