Behind a naughty child, there is a nest of bear parents standing...
The child is young and fails to form correct values. It is difficult to distinguish right from wrong. Parents need to constantly guide and teach the principles in life. It’s just that some parents don’t understand and are too doting on their children. Even if they do things that go beyond the bottom line, they won’t say much.
On weekdays, I can’t bear to beat and scold my child, and “providing” my child at home. It seems to be good to the child, but in fact it is indirectly harming him. Unrestrained children will test wildly on the verge of being beaten and challenge various bottom lines. After all, parents will support you later.
At home, my parents spoiled me, but when I entered society, no one would spoil you outside. It may be that you are a little boy, so take care of it, but once you do something that infringes on others' rights, you will naturally be punished, sometimes physically and sometimes psychologically.
In a shop in Guangdong, a little boy kicked the fitting room to cover the curtains and "peeped" the girl who changed clothes in the fitting room many times. She had a skillful movement and skillful technique. It seemed that it was not the first time she did such a thing. The woman could no longer bear it and slapped him on the spot.
In October, there is already winter temperature in the north, but the south is as warm as spring. The little boy is wearing a red vest and his lower body is full of blue shorts. Hold the edge of fitting room with your hands, throw your feet out with your body, and try to lift the fitting room with your feet.
If you kick the fitting room with your feet many times, it would be fine. After all, as a child, no matter how strong he is, he will definitely not lift all the shielding curtains. But the problem is that he has peeped at the woman changing clothes inside many times, and despite warnings, it still has not changed.
If you are a dress-changing woman, you can change clothes normally inside and appreciate your figure and appearance, how beautiful and pleasant it is. But what do you think when someone tries to peek? Personal privacy is violated and it is absolutely unbearable and we must teach you some lessons.
Maybe in the eyes of the little boy, peeking at others is a pleasure, but this deeply hurts others. Perhaps this is a kind of " exquisite egoist ". He hurts others for his own happiness, but he is still young, what if he gets older?
As a parent, you should educate your children and guide them to establish correct values, what can be done and what cannot be done, at least you must have a scale in your heart. We should give encouragement and support to do good things, and we should correct mistakes in a timely manner, rather than excessive pampering. After the announcement of
, it caused heated discussion among netizens. The little boy's behavior was criticized and accused by everyone. However, although he was still young, everyone pointed the finger at the parents of the child, saying that he would not educate the child, and that he would not suffer any losses now, and he would definitely suffer losses in the future.
Some people say it is a problem for parents. Now they don’t educate their children well, but they have been spoiled by them. Some people will definitely educate them in the future. Either they suffer losses when they enter society or they will leave them to the law for education. Instead of this, why not educate them now?
Some people say that the woman's reaction was overreacting. The child was lying on his trench and peeking, and he would definitely not see them all. There is no need to slap someone. What if something happens? But if you think about it carefully, if you don’t teach a lesson, should you still advocate this kind of behavior of peeping others? cannot.
Educating children is not an easy task. You must have enough patience and confidence, and use appropriate methods instead of letting them go. This is understandable when a child is young and ignorant, but don’t parents understand it? This is the parents' problem. A naughty child like
will definitely get a lesson. This time it was a woman's slap. If she doesn't correct it, what about next time? Maybe it's not a slap. I just hope that the little boy can recognize his mistakes, correct them in time, and no longer violate other people's privacy.
Clothes changing room is a place where others buy clothes and change them. If it is not to protect others' privacy, why do you still have a shield? Such naughty children do lack education. I just hope that parents can realize it as soon as possible, otherwise they will be left to legal education if they are late.
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