Rebellious period Adolescence is a stage that every child must go through during his growth process, and it is also a topic that cannot be avoided. As the child grows older, the well-behaved and cute little angels become naughty and disobedient destruction. The child starts to let himself go from the beginning of his learning to walk. But for parents, his blood pressure is soaring...
For the rebellious period of children, many parents will feel a headache, thinking that the child is disobedient and does not listen to anything, so that he will not write homework, eat, and not eat, and not play games, but he will have to fight. Anyway, they are all required to do it in the opposite direction. Parents think everything is for your own good, but the child is not grateful, which makes parents very embarrassed. But because of this, most parents don’t know why their children are rebellious? Parents often use an inertial thinking to control their children's thoughts, hold them in the way they say they are good for you, and discipline them in a way that they can only understand. Therefore, the child is rebellious
In fact, from another perspective, children's rebellion does not mean that they want to simply do the parents. The reason why they do this is because as they get older, children begin to have their own ideas, have their own independent thinking, and do not want to follow their parents all the time. Rebellion is actually a sign of the child's mental maturity and the beginning of an independent personality. In short, it is actually a good start. Therefore, parents must seize the following three periods of rebellion when their children are rebellious. Correct education of children will surely overtake on the curve
2-3-year-old children's first stage rebellion period, at this time, the child's self-will Knowledge has entered the budding stage, and likes to say no. Everyone wants to do it by themselves, and has a strong sense of order. At this time, children do not understand what sharing is. Therefore, in the face of the sudden change of good babies in the past, parents must give their children room to develop and let their children gradually prepare for kindergartens independently; 7-9 years old is the second stage of childhood rebellion. Children at this stage have their own strong ideas. They hate parents regard their children as children of children of children of this age and are more energetic. Parents can guide their children to carry out some meaningful activities to let their children use their energy into the parent-child relationship. The third stage of youth rebellion at the age of 12-18 is the most troublesome period for parents. They will conflict with their parents due to different ideas and focus on personal privacy, etc. This period is even more important to provide correct guidance and relaxation to give their children space to grow. As long as they don’t do bad things, they will learn to let them grow.
The rebellious period is one of the most critical periods in children's life. Parents should grasp this period of time to guide their children reasonably and not lose their temper. This will not only help children shape a healthy and sunny personality.
