Poor people will give themselves many excuses, which will lead to their own mediocrity, and they always feel that these objective conditions limit themselves. In fact, it is yourself who restricts yourself.
The reason is that I have been numbed by raising and educating since I was a child.
When you are young, you must let your child make more mistakes. By making mistakes, he can experience and understand them by himself and find the right method.
instead of parents trying to make sure they are foolproof every step, and even force them not to make mistakes. Children like
will have a big obstacle when they grow up, which is the fear of difficulties.
And you often don’t know that you are afraid of difficulties.
For example, if you want to do something but have not taken action, or have started without advancing, you will say this and that, and you will really feel helpless.
But you don’t know that your fear of difficulties is at work below, and then you created so many obstacles yourself.
People with severe fear of difficulties will have two characteristics, either procrastination or pursuit of perfection.
delay is also because you cannot bear failure and pursue perfection.
But in the process of procrastination and the process of pursuing perfection, it will cause you continuous consumption.
You are not low in energy, but spending all your energy in procrastination anxiety and self-doubt in pursuit of perfection.
People with these two characteristics will appear to have very weak mobility because their limbs cannot be assigned power, and all their power is occupied by the priority mind.
People with fear of difficulties need to learn to adjust and make progress in actions, rather than starting with full preparation.
For example, if you want to write an article or record a video, you have always thought about how to do it, but as a result, you will never produce a piece of text and never shoot a video. You open the editor and start writing, open the camera and start recording, and everything starts to run.
You start to do it first, it may be disordered at the beginning, and it is easier for you to slowly find out the score in the chaos. For example, when I didn’t start writing, my mind was blank. I started writing, but I didn’t know what to write at the beginning. As I was writing, I found a central idea that I could sort out in the text, and the article came out.
People who are afraid of difficulties are because they have been labeled too many tags since childhood.
Why do you think it is difficult? That is difficult. Because you didn’t experience the feeling of success brought by this and that when you were a child, and then you did something, and if you didn’t do it well, you would be labeled. If you don’t do it well, you won’t do it well. No adults tell you that it is okay to do something wrong or not. This is the process of achieving "good". Walking through this process will make you achieve "better".
When raising children, we tell them not to be afraid of making mistakes. If you observe your child, you have developed the habit of being very afraid of making mistakes, and re-enter instructions like "You can make mistakes" and "Making mistakes will help you do the right thing" to unbundle your child's thoughts and beliefs.
But not all parents can do this idea. Because many parents are very afraid of making mistakes. So why is the best education said to be the awakening of parents? Only when parents awaken and save themselves can they untire their children and awaken them.
Recently I saw a sentence online: May you be free as the wind and love with fearlessness.
Our bodies are already following various necessary social rules. In addition, any helplessness, constraints and difficulties can be said to be the result of our thoughts being put on their shoes.
So, may you be free as the wind, fearlessly try everything that can enrich and powerful your life experience.
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