After Jackfruit went to school, I was very angry with her because I forgot to bring my homework book. Finally one day, it broke out without control and beaten up.
Then I regretted it, and while I still couldn't control my emotions, I said harsh words to her.
Two days later, I told myself that this is not possible. Not only did I not make any progress in my studies, but I also became less confident. If it continues, she is likely to feel disgusted with learning.
, so I searched the information and looked for the learning method . I recently discovered this "three-step learning method", which is quite effective at present. Plan under
column;
set time;
gives a "reward".
Step 1: List the plan.
Don’t let your child write it as soon as he comes up, but list all plans.
My solution is to let Jackfruit come back from school and ask her to tell her homework that day and I will help her write it in the planning book.
has come to the point, each item requires three requirements: seriousness (focus on and don’t make mistakes), attitude (not running around, look left and right), and learning (most important).
This is the plan for the first day (without book, use a broken piece of paper instead)
On the first day, Jackfruit's performance was not very good, especially his attitude.
keeps moving, any movement will attract 100% of her attention.
So after completing the task at 11:00, I didn't let her choose what she wanted to do and went to bed directly.
The next day, the effect was much better.
I was not at home on the third day, and my father didn't act according to the plan. I picked it up again today, and the effect was much better than before.
Step 2: Set the time.
must not let children learn endlessly. Only by setting aside a certain time can they improve their learning efficiency.
passed the test, and I made a plan for Jackfruit to study for 25 minutes and rest for 5 minutes. You can increase or decrease the time appropriately according to the degree of concentration of your child.
Step 3: Give a "reward".
The reward here is not a reward in the general sense and has nothing to do with material things, but let the child do what he wants to do.
For example, let me tell them stories, do a small experiment, complete handicrafts, etc.
method can make children focus more on homework itself and not take learning as a burden. The pineapple mother is still testing this method. If your child also has problems such as not focusing on learning and procrastinating, you can also try it in this way. Remember to tell me if it works.
