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Netizen asked: How to deal with the severity of comprehensive development and cultivation of specialties in children’s education?
Reply: The best way for individuals to grow and develop
"Tao Te Ching" : " Heaven and earth are not kind, and all things are the straw (chú) dog ." Heaven and earth treat everything the same way, and they will not be particularly good to anyone, nor will they be particularly bad to anyone, and everything will develop naturally. life is given the natural material combination form of reproductive ability + growth cycle + a small part of damage self-healing function . All natural life must adapt to the natural living environment in the way of passive adaptation + active request for . Plant absorbs water-soluble microminerals from natural substances combined with photosynthesis to produce life nutrients, animal feeds directly or indirectly, microorganisms board in plants or animals... Natural life quietly forms the " ecological food chain " with relatively balanced stability .
human , a community viviparous mammal with the highest comprehensive IQ, the slowest growth and the strongest growth plasticity in the natural life system. At the beginning of human life, human life relies entirely on the " natural ecological food chain " to survive, pick plant fruits when hungry, drink mountain spring water when thirsty, occasionally hunt other animals for tooth sacrifice, find a branch or cave for a rest when trapped... The lifestyle of the original ancestors of humans is no different from many omnivorous wild mammals today. However, as a social mammal with the highest comprehensive IQ, humans are the only social animal group in the natural life system that forms complex text wisdom through summary and abstract divergence. domestication and sowing plants, animal husbandry and fishery that tame captive animals, mining and processing to make production labor and life auxiliary equipment, pharmaceutical industry that assists humans in defeating diseases, etc. are all basic ways for humans to actively work to create to improve the living environment.
When a child is born, he only has the most basic vital signs. He can crawl around 8 months of birth, walk around 1 year old and try to talk, after he is 3 years old, he can eat independently and defecate himself, after he is 7 years old, he basically has the ability to move independently, and after he is 15 years old, he basically has the ability to fully independent civil behavior... After he is over 60 years old [60 years old], his ability to survive independently begins to decline until the individual finally returns to nature. The trajectory of human individual life is like a complete parabola, and his ability to survive independently will not suddenly arrive or disappear suddenly. Therefore, in order to better pass on the formed civilized survival mode from generation to generation, human society has formed the most complete system of inheriting group survival skills in the natural life system - Education .
" Horse Talks "
There was a Bole in the world, and then there was a Thousand Mile Horse. There are often horses with thousands of miles apart, but there are not many Bo Les. Therefore, even though there is a famous horse, it is only insulted by slaves, and died in the stables, and it is not praised for being a thousand miles away.
If a horse is a thousand miles apart, one food may be eaten or one stone. Those who eat horses do not know that they can eat thousands of miles away. This is a horse. Even if it has the ability of a thousand miles, it is not enough to have enough food or strength. It is not easy to see its talent and beauty. And if you want to be with a permanent horse, how can you find it to be able to have a thousand miles?
The strategy does not follow the way, and the food cannot be fully equipped with the material, and the sound does not mean it, and the strategy is held and the response is said, "There is no horse in the world!" Alas! Is it true that there is no horse? He really doesn't know how to do horses!
vernacular translation :
There is a Bole in the world (first) and then there is a Thousand Mile Horse. There are often thousands of miles of horses, but there are not many men. Therefore, even if there are precious horses, they are just insulted in the hands of servants, and (with ordinary horses) die in the stables, and are not known for being a thousand-mile horse. (Traveling every day) A horse that is thousands of miles apart can sometimes finish a stone of food after eating a meal. The person who feeds the horse does not know that it can feed it (travel a day) thousands of miles (like an ordinary horse).Even if such a horse has the ability to travel thousands of miles a day, he is not full and has insufficient strength, his talents and good qualities cannot be shown. If he wants to travel thousands of miles a day, how can he ask him to travel thousands of miles a day? If you do not whip it according to the correct method (the one who drives the thousand-mile horse) and feed it, you cannot do your best to feed it. If you listen to the thousand-mile horse neighing, you cannot understand its meaning, and face it with a whip and say, "There is no thousand-mile horse in the world!" Alas! Is there really no Thousand Mile Horse? Maybe I really don’t know Qianlima!
The same person, different individuals
There are no two identical leaves in the world, dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, rats' sons can dig holes, genius is 1% inspiration, plus 99% sweat, but that 1% inspiration is the most important, dragons give birth to nine sons , nine sons are different, and the reason why geniuses in people's eyes are outstanding is not that they are more talented, but that they have made continuous efforts. 10,000 hours of tempering are a necessary condition for anyone to go from ordinary to world-class master ... The existing experience of survival of human civilization has confirmed a basic fact that everyone is different. Even the same twins of will have different growth differences. Those who have achieved outstanding achievements in specific fields must have given up a lot.
Primary school students' text "Kitten Fishing" :
Mother cats are fishing by the river with her kitten.
A dragonfly flew over, and the kitten saw it and went to catch the dragonfly. The dragonfly flew away, and the kitten returned to the river empty-handed and saw his mother fishing a big fish.
A butterfly flew over, and the kitten saw it and went to catch the butterfly again. The butterfly flew away, but the kitten returned to the river empty-handed and saw that his mother was catching another big fish.
kitten said, "It's so irritating! Why can't I catch a little fish?"
cat mother looked at the kitten and said, "Just fish if you fish, don't catch dragonflies or butterflies later. How can you catch fish after half-heartedness?"
"Kitten Fishing" tells us: Anyone must be wholehearted and focused on everything, and cannot be both focused and half-hearted . Of course, just as the kitten in the text must give up fishing when catching dragonflies + butterflies, and must turn a blind eye to dragonflies + butterflies when catching dragonflies and butterflies when catching dragonflies and butterflies, if a child wants to find his own "Status Determinant" in the ocean where human wisdom and knowledge gather, he must make a choice.
"Zengguang Xianwen": " Every inch of time is worth every inch of money, and a gold cannot buy a short time ." Wherever humans spend time, they will harvest the fruits . However, time treats all natural life equally, and will not deduct the living time of a certain life, nor will it deliberately forgive the living time of a certain life. Therefore, when people choose farming, they have to give up hunting, choose mining, processing, and make production and labor, and also life auxiliary equipment, they have to give up animal husbandry, choose to defend the country and guard the border, they have to give up staying with their families forever, choose to be a doctor, they have to give up doing business and making a lot of money, choose to serve the people loyally, and give up favoritism and abuse of power...
willingness, means that there is gain only when there is giving. If you want to get, you must give up that means you are willing to give up, and you are not stingy. "Jian Shitongyan·Jin Lingshi Meimaid Commends Xiutong": "If someone today has a true trust from the thief, when he comes to report you, would you still be willing to give up twenty taels of silver?" has both giving up and gain, but he is reluctant to give up, he is big and gained, and he is small and gained. Giving up is a kind of wisdom and attitude in life, and it is the feeling and wisdom that transcends the realm to make decisions about what has been obtained and can be obtained. It is also a kind of " Life Zen " that is appreciated by both the elite and the masses and enlightens the mind.
As the saying goes, " can't bear to leave children (open shoes) and can't hold wolves ." Sowing seeds in spring and managing them carefully, and only harvesting food in autumn can we plant seedlings and carefully prune branches and leaves, and only harvesting wood after several years.Similarly, as an indigenous people in the post-" information explosion " era, every child must first choose a direction to learn for themselves, and then study hard before they can stand out in a specific direction, such as the Olympic champions, the piano field, the billiards field, the billiards field, the famous modern educator Tao Xingzhi said: "Cultivating and educating people is the same as planting flowers and trees. First of all, we must understand the characteristics of flowers and trees, and differentiate different situations to fertilize, water and cultivate education. This is called ' teaching according to their aptitude '." Today, the unified teaching syllabus & textbooks for school education, selecting teachers with unified standards and organizing the selection of students to be promoted, and according to the school's teaching requirements, it can guide children to achieve comprehensive development. However, the social reality of division of labor and cooperation in production and labor in human society tells us that everyone must access society at their best point in order to gain the greatest recognition of group value. Therefore, the best way for individual growth and development is to to be solid and have outstanding specialties.
Neighborhood mission: Become a sparring and consultant on the road to growth of children.
Vision of nurturing neighbors: Let there be no difficult-to-bred young people and no difficult-to-raising old people in the world.
The growth of children is like a century-old tree. It requires experiencing storms, selfless companionship from the family, and earnest teaching from schools and society. Educate neighbors: Explore the use of neighborhood friendship to drive social harmony, promote social moral education, and promote everyone's healthy and happy growth, in order to "tailor" children's growth plans with parents and build an educational service ecosystem that helps community neighbors.
