Going to school is not a casual matter. There are many rules that restrict us. One of them is of great concern to everyone, and that is the school age. Children must be at least three years old to enter kindergarten. However, many parents regard the age of three as a rigid target. As soon as the child reaches the requirement, they will send him there as soon as possible.
Many parents want to send their children to school as soon as possible. On the one hand, they don’t want their children to lose at the starting line and let them be left behind by other students. On the other hand, they really can’t stand their children and want to send them to school. The school can have teachers to discipline them so that they, as parents, can relax and unwind. But is this really the right approach?
Case:
Xiaohua was sent to kindergarten by her mother as soon as she reached school age. But just after half term, my mother regretted it. Because Xiaohua used to be in good health and rarely caught colds, but after going to school, he became a drug addict. He had so many colds that he had to go to the hospital almost every half month.
I catch a lot of colds, and my child suffers from chronic sinusitis , so he often asks for leave. My mother regrets it very much because she only had a cold and fever once a year when she was not in kindergarten. But the child has already entered school, and has only been in school for half a semester. There is nothing the mother can do. After all, there is no turning back. We can only let our children continue to go to school while sick.
"Should children go to kindergarten at the age of 3?" The principal said frankly: These two types of children will also suffer if they go there
Children with poor resistance
Children are well protected when they are at home, because there are not many people at home. Not easy to cross-infection. But school is different. Even if our child seldom gets sick before, it does not mean that his resistance is strong. It may be due to the relatively safe family. But there are many children in the school. If a child has a headache and a cold, cross-infection is likely to occur.
If our child has a weak immune system, he will be easily infected and develop headaches and cold symptoms. This is also the reason why many children's resistance becomes worse as soon as they arrive in kindergarten. In fact, it is not that the resistance becomes worse, but that the child's original physical condition is not as good as adults imagine.
No self-care ability
Three years old is indeed a child. They may have just become sensible and just understand how the world works. Suddenly entering a strange environment and losing the most important protection of the mother, how could the child accept it? If children have basic self-care abilities, they can have a sense of security and know that they can live a good life.
But if the child does not even have basic self-care abilities, it will not only bring a lot of trouble to the teacher, but also make the child feel insecure and cry all day long. Some parents are unable to work well because their children cry all day at school. In the end, they have no choice but to take their children back.
Under what circumstances is it most appropriate to send your children to kindergarten?
In fact, we still need to analyze the specific situation. If there is really no one to look after the children at home, both parents need to work, and the grandparents are not healthy, then there is no other way but to let the children go to kindergarten. If we had someone to look after us at home, we could have delayed the baby for a year. Let the children have clear language expression ability, basic self-care ability, and physical resistance gradually enhanced, so that they can more easily adapt to the school environment.
Parenting message : Parents do not need to rush to send their children to kindergarten, because their hearts are full of fear, and the body's resistance may further decline in fear. We still need to cultivate children's confidence and make them strong and brave. . If your child cries as soon as he arrives at kindergarten, parents can encourage him and tell him that it is okay.And be sure to pick up the child in time to avoid making him feel afraid.
Today’s topic: How old was your child when he went to kindergarten?
