The life of a parent is filled with countless little conflicts. Even parents who have no temper will inevitably yell at their uncooperative children because they are too stressed or too busy:
"Why are you so stupid?" Wrong, this is the first time! "
" I've spoiled you! "
"How many times do you want me to say it, why don't you hurry up..."
After yelling, you have A sincere apology to the child?
"Baby, I'm sorry for yelling at you just now. Mom/Dad are very tired today and have a lot of things to do. I didn't control myself and said hurtful words to you. I just hope you can do your homework seriously. / Don’t throw toys away / Go take a shower quickly... I need your help, can you help me? ”
When parents bravely admit their mistakes and sincerely apologize to their children, they are setting an example for their children. Parents are not perfect people and will make mistakes, but as long as they admit their mistakes, apologize, take their own responsibilities, and make corrections, they will have the opportunity to be trusted again and have the right to be happy again.
When children have role models who dare to take responsibility for their own mistakes, they who are willing to imitate adults will also learn to apologize and take responsibility for their own mistakes. Children will also have more harmonious interpersonal relationships when they grow up, which will be one of the most important life skills parents give their children.
In addition, your apology also allows the child to confirm his important position in the parents' heart and consolidates the relationship between you and the child. After all, there is nothing more satisfying than being understood by someone you love.
