Hello everyone, my name is Xiaoshang Parenting Collection
Mom and dad are probably the most selfless people in the world. They have always supported their children from beginning to end, hoping that their children will be successful. From the parents' perspective, The hand passed the baton.
But not all parents’ dedication can be exchanged for their children’s diligence. There are always some children who take for granted the material conditions provided by their parents and do not know how to work hard on their own. Instead, they find ways to “ask” from their parents. .
Take my friend as an example. Xiaojun is the only son in the family, and everyone in his family loves him very much. He has always been the envy of my friends. After graduating from college, his parents spent money to buy a car and tried to help him find a car. A stable job.
But Xiaojun is a person who doesn't know how to behave himself. He felt that the job arranged by his parents was low-paying and had no future. He quit his job without telling his parents, hoping to make a career out of it.
's resignation made his parents very angry, but since there was only one son in the family, they could only support him unconditionally. He spent half of the family money to help his son set up a studio, but the reality was often cruel. More than half a year later, the studio closed down due to poor management.
But instead of looking for reasons from himself, Xiaojun just complained about the bad opportunities and bad market conditions. Although Xiaojun's parents are also very distressed, they believe that failure in starting a business will make their son mature and stable, so that he can find a job in a down-to-earth manner.
But unexpectedly, Xiaojun looked for his parents again, saying that he had found a very profitable project, but this time Xiaojun's parents would no longer support him, and Xiaojun deceived his parents to find a partner himself, watching his child work without success. However, the big thing in his life turned out to be okay, so he supported Xiaojun's love affair and even gave his son a sum of money so that he could find a good partner.
Unexpectedly, Xiaojun took a lot of money from his parents, but eventually wasted it all. He found a friend to start a business together, but was also deceived by a good friend. Xiaojun's father was so anxious that he was admitted to the hospital.
In the past, the gnalao people we knew were all children who ate and drank at home, did not work or make progress, and continued to spend their parents’ money even when they were grown. However, a new type of gnaolao clan has gradually emerged. Many parents Haven't noticed yet.
First, ask your parents for money and start your own business
Of course, this does not mean that starting a business is not possible, but that starting a business itself is risky. If you want to start a business with the hope of success, you must work in a certain field for at least two years and be familiar with all aspects. We all know that every step can be taken smoothly, so that the probability of success in starting a business is high.
If you are hot-headed, don’t know your positioning, and think what you want, this kind of entrepreneurship is a waste of your parents’ money and will not live up to your parents’ expectations.
You must know that our parents have worked hard for us all their lives and are approaching retirement age. At a time when we should be working hard to provide for our families, we misuse our parents’ money in various ways. This is also a form of unfilial piety.
2. I have been studying
in order to avoid work. There are such examples around me. My cousin has never been good at studying. She managed to get into junior college. After graduating from college, she had to say that she would go to junior college. She is still very supportive at home. Tens of thousands of tuition fees.
is not over yet. When I entered junior college, I thought about taking the postgraduate entrance examination. I failed the postgraduate entrance examination and stayed at home with no intention of finding a job. I told my parents that I wanted to take public exams. .
In fact, in my cousin’s case, it is to avoid not wanting to go to work. She felt that given the money to go to school, she had become accustomed to this "decadent" life. On the surface, she looks like she's working hard, but she doesn't care.
My relatives also advised me to find a job and work while taking the public exam, so that I could be financially capable.
As an adult you should feel guilty and either work hard to achieve your goals or take your fair share of responsibility instead of letting your parents pay for your failures.
In fact, the most important thing about filial piety is whether you have the will. No matter what method you use to work hard, at least you have a sense of responsibility and self-motivation, rather than fooling around for the sake of fooling.Parents are getting older day by day. As a child, you should let yourself mature and not let the elderly worry about you.
Finally, what do you think of this "new style of chewing on the old"?
