I saw a video. The author said that his child was thirteen years old and he bought a book of and Mo Yan as a gift for the child. He said that some people may think that Mo Yan's book depicts human nature too evilly. But he thinks it's a good thing to let children understand the truth about human nature early. This will prevent the child from having to reshape his values when he reaches his age. The author of the
video should be a loyal reader of Mo Yan. It is understandable that he recognizes Mo Yan and loves Mo Yan's works. Let us not discuss the rights and wrongs of Mo Yan and his works. Just from the perspective of childhood education. I do not advocate giving minors books that expose the dark side of society.
We only show positive things to young children. This does not mean that we deny the existence of the dark side, nor do we want to put children in a greenhouse. But to protect the innocence of young children.
" Book of Rites " says, "Children are the ones who cultivate the righteousness of the saints!" The minds of young children are not yet developed, and the three views have not yet been established, so they are easily affected by the environment. The most critical thing for parents and teachers at this time is to cultivate their righteousness.
When did you start to be upright? Starting from prenatal education and , we must start to maintain good health. King Wen of Zhou 's mother Tairen , when she was pregnant, "the eyes will not see evil colors, the ears will not hear obscene sounds, and the mouth will not speak Ao words": bad things will not be seen, bad sounds will not be heard, no Don't say anything good. Although the fetus is not born, it is closely related to the mother's body and mind. The mother's emotions will affect the fetus's mind.
It is precisely because the three wives of the Zhou Dynasty ( Tai Jiang , Tai Ren, Tai Si ) paid great attention to prenatal education, so they trained three saints: King Wen of Zhou, King Wu of Zhou , and Duke Zhou .
Meng’s mother moved three times, which also illustrates the importance of raising children upright.
Many young parents now advocate "letting children understand the truth of society and the dark side of society as early as possible." In fact, they are all done according to the preferences of adults, without a deep understanding of the true meaning of education.
" Three Character Classic " tells us that "human beings are inherently good in nature, their natures are similar, their habits are far apart, and if they are not taught, their natures will change." That is to say, human nature is pure and good, and human natures are all similar, but People's habits vary greatly. How do differences in habits arise? It’s the impact of the environment. The biggest impact is education.
This is why the ancient sages attached so much importance to education. What is education? As a teacher, what you do above is what you do below. Educators are good at rescuing lost ones. "So the purpose of education is to suppress the evil in habits, cultivate the good in habits, and slowly return to the pure goodness of nature.
