#成之真#What does it mean to truly grow up? What should I do? Growing up is not only the increase of age, but also the maturity of thought. Growing up means independence, learning how to face difficulties, endure setbacks, and survive in society. You also need to learn how to commun

If this is not the problem, but if you think that when you grow up, you can make your own decisions in everything, have enough self-confidence, and have the ability to be independent of the world, then this problem is not difficult.

You can grow up at the age of 12. There are shortcuts, and they don't require particularly good intelligence.

Because most people's intelligence is average, or below average. What does

shortcut mean? read.

Teachers and parents have always helped solve the problem of how people live. They can forge it however they want.

In fact, the best way is for young people to read a lot of books on their own, because there are so many people who have lived in history. There is nothing new about being a person or doing anything. Son.

The more books I read, the more think tanks and partners I have, the more independent I am, and the less lonely I am.

Anyone who wants to can find wonderful and labor-saving methods from the treasure house of books.

Only when you understand the truth of the matter can you grow up.

formed his own opinions when he grew up. Forming an opinion requires firmness and tenacity of personality. Most people are too soft-hearted and not strong enough in personality.

Therefore, we can only rely on the second way to form an opinion: a large amount of knowledge and experience.

A prominent problem among our teenagers is that they are enslaved by exam-oriented education and are indoctrinated with a lot of knowledge and dogma about what the world is like. Only in college can they read some philosophy books and biographies. Learn a little about humanities.

How to grow up? Only we know.

Only by taking the standards into our own hands can we take the initiative as human beings. Asking others is often a good idea, but if you only read wordless books and just use the people around you as teachers, sometimes it is inevitable that his limitations will become your limitations.

Best friends around you are indispensable, but this kind of friend is not enough. You must also have friends in books.

can only continue to read a large number of biographies, long or short, described from all sides. It is best to have completely different views on the same person and the same thing. Reading them will especially cultivate personal discernment.

Different opinions make people mature.

Mature people understand the same thing, but there will be so many completely different evaluations.