"Children's prenatal education issue is very important. Pregnant mothers must pay attention to the prenatal education of their children and let their children win at the starting line."
"The cultural enlightenment of children before the age of 3 is very important , otherwise, it will be too late to train your children after they enter kindergarten. "
" This phenomenon is very common in the third grade of elementary school. Parents must be mentally prepared in advance to help their children successfully pass this critical period of growth. "
"Junior high school is a critical period for children's growth. Whether they can get into a good high school depends on their efforts in the past three years."
"High school is a stage where children's tears and sweat fly together. The best way to get into a good high school is to endure hardships." To be a good person, parents must do a good job in providing logistical support for their children, and must not hold them back during the critical period of their children’s growth. "
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I believe that many parents and friends have heard this before in the process of raising their children. Or have seen parenting maxims similar to the ones above.
As a parent who is determined to grow up with his children, every time I see such content, it not only makes me feel more anxious about parenting. At the same time, it often makes me deeply regret that I failed to develop certain abilities in my children when they were younger.
However, as I have read more and more books on family education and in the past two years, and as my understanding of parenting concepts has deepened, my inner parenting anxiety has gradually become relieved. .
Children's growth is actually a very complicated process. Moreover, in the process of children's growth, every age group cannot be ignored, and every growth period is also critical. There are no good children for no reason, and there are no "problem children" for no reason.
We don’t have to envy how good other people’s children are, nor do we have to be upset about the temporary poor performance of our own children. Children are children for the first time, and we are parents for the first time. Growing up requires learning.
And if we want to continue to grow, we must learn to continue learning, so that both ourselves and our children have the motivation and energy to continue to grow.
"It takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to cultivate people." Education of children is a systematic project, and children's growth is also a step-by-step process.
The growth of children will always be accompanied by unavoidable regrets. As parents, we should just try our best to do the current things well.
The best way to relieve parenting anxiety is to learn to appreciate every progress your child makes!
At the same time, parents should constantly remind themselves: the small step that children take today on the road to excellence will, through continuous accumulation, lead to a big step in a few years!
You have to pay first, and then you will gain something later! As parents, we should no longer regret those critical periods for our children’s growth that we have missed.
Starting from today, starting from this moment, it is never too late to work hard to do what a parent should do for his children!
