Last weekend, I went to visit my little cousin's family. I thought it would be relatively easy for her to hire a nanny to help take care of the baby. But when we met, I realized that I had underestimated the difficulty of raising a baby. My little cousin complained to me with a h

Last weekend, I went to visit my little cousin’s family. I thought it would be relatively easy for her to hire a nanny to help take care of her baby. But when we met, I realized that I had underestimated the difficulty of raising a baby. My little cousin complained to me with a haggard look: The child was so dishonest when sleeping, , which made me sleepless all night.

It stands to reason that my cousin's child is only 7 months old and spends a lot of time sleeping deeply. How could he not sleep well?

I smiled and explained to my little cousin: In fact, many children have the behavior of "taking up space" when they are babies.. I still remember when my child rolled all over the bed. Not knowing why, I thought it was gravity that made the child follow the direction I was sleeping. I was annoyed that I was too heavy. Later, after some advice from the pediatrician, I learned that turned out to be the child's attachment to his mother.

"Ah!" The little cousin's mouth opened wide into an O shape.

Yes, I think many new mothers are like my little cousin. Due to lack of parenting experience, they often "can't guess" their children's behaviors.

During infancy, children do not have language skills and can only express themselves through body movements. So, new parents, take note! Don't think that everything will be fine once your child is asleep. Children love to "roll all over the bed" when sleeping. It may be caused by the following reasons. You must carefully interpret the body language released by your child, otherwise you may accidentally trap your child.

"I feel uncomfortable"

Babies like to roll around on the bed when sleeping. A very common reason is that they feel uncomfortable. If parents observe that the baby does not have colds, fever, etc., then consider that it may be abdominal distension caused by accumulated food.

Parents can observe, when the baby "rolls all over the bed", does make a calming movement with the abdomen pressed against the bed? If so, it is most likely caused by problems with the baby's abdomen.

The situation is not too serious. Parents can gently massage the baby's abdomen in a clockwise direction to help the baby's intestinal exhaust. They will feel more comfortable and their sleeping posture will become more honest. If massage cannot relieve the baby's symptoms and they still fuss, or may be accompanied by inexplicable crying , it is recommended that you go to the hospital and undergo a series of examinations under the guidance of a doctor to clarify the cause.

If parents are "careless" and think that their children are lying all over the bed because they are sleeping dishonestly, it is very likely to delay the development of the child's condition and make the child unaware.

"I feel it's too hot"

Summer is here, and babies with a strong metabolism and poor body temperature regulation ability are very picky about the temperature of their sleeping environment.

Adults think it’s just right, but it may be too hot for babies.

So when parents find that their babies are always "rolling all over the bed", they can first touch the baby's neck and back to see if there is any sweating? If so, the temperature of the sleeping environment must be adjusted. For example: reduce the amount of bedding the baby covers, turn on the air conditioner to adjust the room temperature, etc.

Comfortable temperature and quiet environment are all helpful to help babies enter sweet dreams!

"I want to sleep with my mother"

Most mothers have had the "magic moment" when their children are sleeping soundly in their arms, but as soon as they are placed on the bed, they wake up in an instant.

In fact, this is the behavior of infants and young children who lack a sense of security and are intimately dependent on their caregivers. After all, when they are in the mother's belly, they are tightly wrapped and will not be disturbed at all, so the baby will feel very safe.After leaving their mother's belly, they will subconsciously continue this idea, hoping to be next to familiar people.

Therefore, in addition to being sick, uncomfortable, too hot and other reasons, the baby "rolling all over the bed" is most likely looking for the mother, hoping to smell the mother's body odor and fall asleep together with the mother's body temperature. Are you warmed by your baby's behavior?

Conclusion:

It is undeniable that raising a baby is a tiring and laborious task, especially in the first few months of the birth of a new life. Both mother and baby need to get along with each other. The baby is young but has many needs. Novice mothers lack experience and cannot Correctly guess the baby's thoughts, so it is inevitable that there will be times of panic during the process of raising a baby.

Some "sloppy" mothers simply "turn a blind eye" to their children's behavior of "rolling all over the bed". It is stated categorically that the child is "unreasonably making trouble" and just ignore it.

This approach is very unwise! Many times, the baby's body language will release signals of their disease. Only when parents find the corresponding cause can they make correct adjustments. Therefore, don’t think your baby is too troublesome! Show your parenting patience. As long as masters the baby's life rules, you will soon be able to get through the "irritable" early stages of parenting, and enjoy the tiredness and joy of parenting!