In today's society, in people's minds, as long as a new life is born in a family, the mother is the best person to take care of the baby, while the father's role is mainly to make money and support the family.
Because we all know that every baby is the flesh that fell from the mother's body, and under normal circumstances, women are more careful than men and are good at discovering the occasional discomfort and abnormality of their children. It is precisely because of this that among people In the subconscious mind, only mothers can best take care of their children.
Nothing is absolute. Although every mother loves her children, it does not mean that all mothers can take good care of their children.
Just like recently, a mother in Jinzhou, Liaoning Province shared a video on her social platform. The mother was giving ice cream to her baby, but the mother’s next move made netizens complain that it was really disgusting. Okay, even if it's your own biological child, you shouldn't be like this.
It is reported that this mother often shares some interactions and daily life with her baby on social platforms. The baby looks very cute, and the cute eyes look particularly interesting. Not only that, the baby is also cleaned up by the mother. , it can be seen that my mother is a very clean person on weekdays.
On this day, because the weather was relatively hot, the mother brought an ice cream to the baby. However, because the child was relatively small, the mother could only hold it for the child to eat. In addition, the child also liked this kind of ice cream. It was a cool and sweet food, so I quickly ate more than half of the ice cream.
But at this time, the temperature directly caused the ice cream to gradually melt, so there was a lot of ice cream around the corners of the baby's mouth. To be honest, when encountering such a thing, many people will directly take out a tissue to wipe the baby to prevent the baby from rubbing it everywhere, but this mother did not do this, but chose a more "special" method.
I saw that the baby was sitting on the mother's lap, while the mother was holding the baby with one arm, holding the baby's neck with her hand, and holding the ice cream in the other hand. At this time, we can obviously see, There is a tissue in the hand of the mother holding the ice cream, just to be ready to wipe the baby's mouth at any time.
But when the mother saw the ice cream on the corner of the baby's mouth, she did not wipe it with the tissue in her hand. Instead, after thinking for a while, she directly pushed the baby's head towards her with her other hand, and then licked it with her mouth. Removed the ice cream from the corner of the baby's mouth.
Perhaps the baby did not expect that his mother would do such a thing. He felt that his mother was pushing his head, and he opened his mouth wide to take a bite of the ice cream, but he was greeted by his mother's "slobber tissue".
At this time, because the mother was pushing the baby's head with her hand, she also rubbed some ice cream on her fingers. Without thinking, the mother put her fingers into her mouth and sucked them until her fingers were clean. Take it out.
Later, the mother also showed off in the video that not only was the ice cream not thrown away at all, she also saved napkins, killing two birds with one stone.
This scene caused netizens to leave messages after seeing it, saying that even their own children would not do this. It is not only unhygienic, but also unacceptable.
Perhaps in the mother's mind, this is a very common and ordinary little thing, but in the eyes of others, it has changed. Even if she loves her child no matter how much she loves her, she should not adopt such an approach. Now that her child is small, her health is The body's resistance is inherently poor, and there are still a lot of bacteria in the adult's mouth. It is really not cost-effective to clean up like this just to save a paper towel.
Moreover, such behavior is also very detrimental to the physical and mental health of children. Although children are still young and do not have other ideas, when children become familiar with such methods, they will inevitably think that this behavior is normal. At that time, I am afraid that it cannot be solved by simple "saving".
So no matter from which aspect, this approach is not acceptable. What do you think about this?
