Role playing and playing house are the patents of girls? Boys can successfully transform into little warm boys by playing these

Always see girls gather together to play house, plush toys, and various types of scene-playing games. But the vast majority of male babies are either playing in the car or digging in the sand, or just playing around with their friends. Don’t boys naturally like stuffed toys and role-playing?

In fact, it is not that boys are born to dislike these. The most of the time the babies are reluctant to play these games are related to the guidance of their parents. Many parents have strong gender awareness after their children are born. This is of course a good thing, but strictly distinguishes the games and entertainment hobbies of male and female babies, and subconsciously judges plush toys, play house games and other games as girls Patent is not so necessary for babies, which will lose many opportunities for babies to explore and learn.

Many role-playing games such as plush toys and playhouses will be labelled as "colored" by their parents. Some parents may even think that male babies will become feminine if they play these games, even " In fact, parents don’t need to worry at all. As long as the parents give reasonable guidance, the baby will not become a “sissy”. Playing these games , the baby can also transform into a little warm boy, and at the same time, it is about the baby’s empathy and emotional intelligence. Cultivating and handling things are beneficial in many aspects.

Boys can also play Play House

What are the characteristics of role-playing games?

The role-playing game we are familiar with is similar to the performance of changing roles or pretending to be others, but for babies, it is more to show certain people or things through observation and imitation. come out. The most important feature of role playing may be that we compare to the familiar imitation of , but in fact, there is another big advantage of role playing in family that life will become interesting and children will be more willing to accept it.

Maybe you tell your child to eat well, otherwise you will be hungry, the child will not pay attention to you, still do not eat well, but if you eat a meal, tell your child that you are a mother bear , Mother bear’s favorite is the baby bear who eats, and the baby bear has the strength to go out with mother bear after eating. Maybe the baby will be amused by you imitating the mother bear and start to cooperate, and even finish the meal by himself.

So in fact, for babies, the most important feature of role playing is actually lively and interesting, followed by specific behavioral features such as imitation, performance, cognition, and practice.

Role playing focuses on fun

Role playing covers a very wide range, Whether it is cartoons, picture books, life practices, social experiences, or animals that children come into contact with Both plants can be used as materials for role-playing with babies. This process not only tests parents’ imagination and language skills, but also has many positive effects on babies.

So as long as parents can actively explore the fun of role-playing, you will find that this method is not only interesting, but also very beneficial. has so many benefits for the baby that you can’t think of it. This is comparable to a mobile phone The game is much more interesting, play well not only can harvest high-quality parent-child relationship, but also can be entertaining, so that children can grow up happily.

Role-playing with children is more beneficial

Why are playhouses and soft toys suitable for male babies?

When it comes to playing house, many parents will subconsciously think that this is a girl’s game. In fact, boys and babies have many advantages in playing house. Playing house, as the name suggests, is the situation where children pretend to be parents or family members to live their lives. There are many such scenes. may be imitating parents washing and cooking, imitating parents taking care of babies, imitating parentsOn birthdays, and even some babies will imitate relatives and friends to marry and eat wine. In short, these scenes are mainly derived from the life that babies can touch. Most babies prefer to play house games with their friends. This kind of game not only exercises children's imitating ability and performance ability, but more importantly, can exercise the baby's communication skills and social skills. Baby will gradually go to to experience how to better collaborate and play with the children while having fun with other friends. This is also a compulsory course in the growth process of children.

Role playing exercises children’s social skills

Of course, playing house games does not mean that parents cannot play with children. Smaller babies may be more suitable for their parents to play with. This kind of game, this seemingly naive game can help parents understand their children better. After has exchanged roles with children, you will have a deeper understanding of what you look like in your children’s eyes. You will see the family life in the children's eyes, and the parents will put down the adult's shelf and pretend to play coquettishly and tease the baby. You will find that the baby is much warmer than you think.

And plush toys are also regarded by many parents as the patents of female babies. In fact, male babies are also children. Many babies still like cute dolls, and occasionally buy one or two wool for children. Plush toys, let the baby touch more soft and cute things, and the baby will also get a sense of security more easily. Especially many children will also like to be friends with plush toys, which will help the baby to divert attention and eliminate the child’s nervousness when necessary. , for example, when a friend’s baby is more than 4 years old, the parents ask to sleep with the baby in separate rooms. The baby was very scared of this. He often woke up in the middle of the night and cried and asked his mother to accompany him. Later, a friend bought his beloved Pooh bear doll for her baby. It was amazing. From that night onwards, the baby could actually hold the Pooh bear safely. I would not cry anymore when I fell asleep. In fact, this situation is mainly because firstly the baby himself likes the Pooh bear very much, and secondly the baby has diverted his attention from the plush toy of the Pooh bear. With the help of the plush toy, he successfully regained his sense of security. The baby feels that he is still accompanied by someone, not alone. This is not a bad phenomenon. For the baby, it actually eliminates the inner anxiety and fear that the parents cannot accompany the baby to sleep, which is a good thing.

Plush toys can also bring a sense of security to your baby

In addition, plush toys can also participate in role-playing games with your baby. In the future, cute plush toys are more likely to arouse the baby’s warm masculinity and make the baby show more tenderness. parents will observe more and you will find that appropriate plush toys are actually not harmful to your baby. , Especially male babies, on the contrary, they can also provide them with a better performance props to help them show their talents.

Generally speaking, whether you often play house with your baby or plush toys, as long as the method is correct, there will be no adverse effects on the baby, especially for male babies, this process is easier Cultivate your baby's ability to be observant and considerate, and it is easy to show your baby's gentle and kind nature. It is also a very beneficial experience for your baby to transform into a warm boy.

is a happy experience for children

What can boys learn in role-playing games?

1. Help the baby learn to empathize and pay attention to

In role-playing games, because the baby no longer plays himself, he may play the role of father, mother, or doctor, The role of baker, etc., and these roles have different perspectives, different responsibilities, and different starting points. It is necessary for the baby to observe the characteristics of these roles in daily life, and then show it through his own behavior. The baby will gradually learn to consider problems from the perspective of others during the process of playing. Improve the baby's ability to empathize and pay attention, baby Will be more empathetic and caring.

For example, In real life, mothers and babies can switch roles, mother plays the baby, and the baby plays the mother. The mother can learn the baby’s appearance and refuse to eat or wash his face. See how your baby will react. In this game, the baby will gradually learn to be considerate and understand mother , and gradually get rid of some bad habits, can be said to kill two birds with one stone.

Children will learn to understand their parents and others

2. Help the baby build a sense of responsibility

The sense of responsibility is the baby gradually cultivated in the process of accumulation. An ability. To make children feel responsible, parental guidance is essential. In addition, role-playing can also cultivate a baby's sense of responsibility. We know that if the baby does not play the game, it is very likely that he will not play it. But role-playing game because the baby does not represent himself, on the one hand, the baby may be more involved in the play, on the other hand, the parents can also guide and encourage the child to take responsibility through the characteristics of the role.

For example, lets the baby play role-playing with plush toys, such as mother playing father, baby playing mother, and plush toys playing baby. Let the child help the "little baby" change their diapers and take care of the "little baby"'s diet and daily life. This process can help the baby build up a sense of responsibility and make the baby more willing to take on some responsibilities within his capacity. In addition to this, there are also many interesting role-playing games in life, such as playing the robot sweeping with the baby, mopping the floor together, playing the super flying man with the baby to help others, etc. These can all be to make the child better Realize the sense of responsibility and help your baby establish a correct outlook on life as he grows up.

Children will gradually build up a sense of responsibility

3. Help the baby accumulate social experience

There is a lot of knowledge that children need to absorb as they grow up. , And accumulating social experience is what children must face when they grow up. In addition to teaching children in daily life, they can also play role-playing games related to social scenes with children. This kind of game will gradually improve children’s social experience. Help your baby learn how to get along with others and what to do when learning encounters problems? Learn some skills and experiences in life to help your baby adapt to social life more quickly and cultivate children's social skills.

For example, baby will come into contact with many social scenes, such as role-playing with the baby to buy and sell things, to examine the baby’s ability to respond to changes and whether the baby can correctly judge the use of money, which can prevent the baby When shopping, I don’t know how to find money or be cheated. Another example is the situation of asking a stranger for a role-playing role with a baby, and someone asking the baby to lead the way. This situation may be encountered in life. Help the baby to warn of dangerous situations in advance and vividly show it to the baby during the role-playing process Out of possible dangerous situations, help your baby find the best solution. Here are some tips for this situation: After the role play, you can tell the baby what to do if you really encounter this situation? 1. Tell the other party that it is more reliable to use navigation. 2. Tell the other person that his mother will be coming soon, and that he can't leave, let him ask someone else. 3. Tell the person directly that you don't know, and then go to your mother immediately.

Children can learn social experience

4. Help babies understand social scenes and social division of labor

Role playing is an imaginary playing game, So there are many scenes and roles that can be provided. By playing different professions and different roles, babies can better understand the division of labor in society. This will not only improve the child’s cognitive ability, but also help the child understand the social division of labor, and better understand the nature and characteristics of different positions. This method is also useful for accumulating the baby’s life.Living experience is very beneficial.

For example, and your baby play the role of uncle traffic police directing traffic. not only allows children to understand the profession of traffic police, but also helps children understand various safety knowledge on the road and cultivate children’s road safety awareness , So that children have a deeper understanding of "stop at red, green, and yellow lights." At the same time, it can also guide children to pay attention to traffic safety and not to run around on the road. For another example, playing the role of an aunt cleaner in cleaning. On the one hand, will help children understand the difficulty of aunt cleaner, and on the other hand, it will also help children improve environmental awareness, protect environmental hygiene, and cultivate good habits from an early age.

Role playing helps children better understand social scenes and role division

5. Develop baby’s imagination and creativity

Role playing Another important role of games is to develop the baby’s imagination and creativity. Part of role-playing games comes from life and social practice, and some role-playing games may be related to the development of the baby’s cognitive level. There may be many whimsical processes in the process of role-playing that are inconsistent with common sense. These may be "nonsense" in the eyes of parents, or some parents may be amused by their children's imagination. In fact, this This situation is normal. Children will have a lot of whims in the process of role-playing. Parents should actually support their children’s imagination and creativity. Don’t look at children’s games from the perspective of adults. The focus is on joy. The second is education and learning.

For example, baby is often not as real as an adult when playing role-playing. Once, a boyfriend’s little baby acted as a superman while playing role-playing. He said for a while He turned into an eagle. For a while, he said that the empty bottle was used to make a birthday cake for his mother. At that time, his girlfriends were a bit more serious. Asking the baby, you gave the mother a birthday gift of this kind. In fact, the child's original intention was not to give the mother empty The bottle is a birthday cake, but the form of expression may be different. encourage children's imagination and creativity to make children's thinking more divergent, which is conducive to the improvement of children's intelligence and creativity.

Encourage children's imagination

6. Enhance baby's expression ability and improve baby's self-confidence

Playing role playing not only exercises the baby Observation skills are also a big challenge to your baby's expressive skills. Even if you are a relatively introverted baby, you will find that sometimes your baby plays role-playing and is more proficient than you, an adult. And if the baby gradually adapts to this role during the role-playing process, the baby will be more energetic, and gradually the child will have more self-confidence, which will affect the child's life imperceptibly.

For example, parents often perform some simple dramas with their children, perform scenes in picture books at home or scenes in life and practice. guides the baby to communicate and dialogue, which will not only cultivate children The language ability of the baby can improve the vocabulary and cognitive level of the baby, and it also has a very important influence on the improvement of the baby’s expression ability and logical thinking ability.

Role-playing will also improve baby’s expressive ability and self-confidence

To sum up, role-playing, plush toys, play house and other childish activities in the eyes of adults It is very important for children, whether it is a girl or a boy, they are actually very suitable for playing these games. In particular, parents often accompany their children to play these role-playing games. Children's thinking ability, performance ability, and social cognitive ability will be greatly improved, and the parent-child relationship is closer, and parents will not worry about not knowing what to do with their children. Using these games to interact with your baby will not only make your parent-child time not boring, but will not make your baby addicted to mobile games anymore. It is really multi-tasking, moms and dads, what are you waiting for?Hurry up and use your brain to play with your children.

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