Have you used the love for children correctly?

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I love our children very much.

This is a saying that many parents often say on their lips, but have you ever wondered whether you have love and you have everything, or whether your love is the right kind of love. In many families, In children's education, parents will do many anti-educational things to children in the name of "love", and use this so-called "love" to destroy children's dignity and development space.

Learn to use big love to help your love for your children.

The first to bear the brunt is "doting" , which is

a kind of love with no rules and no bottom line. For example, the unreasonable demands of the child will be satisfied as much as possible, but it will not take into account whether it is helpful to the child, whether it is capable and difficult to buy by oneself. This will produce dependence on the child in the future, and will make more unreasonable demands.

There is also the forced "love" . For your own good, it is necessary to understand the intentions of parents. In fact, this is a common problem of many parents. They ask their children to help them realize their unfulfilled dreams. Every word and deed to their children must be done according to their requirements, otherwise Just beating and scolding. Many parents do not realize that what they did is wrong, they still check their schoolbags and suspicious things, thus ignoring their children’s personal space. Children must always learn to grow up, always learn to face the world independently, and they do their own thinking. What they do, this not only cultivates the practical ability, but also enjoys the process, so as to improve their own quality.

Let them have their own space and hobbies.

Therefore, we as parents must learn to use love, to make love flexible and wise, and to learn to integrate all kinds of love, so that our educational philosophy can be raised to a new level. We must walk with love, so that children have the space to grow independently and have the right to grow and develop, so that they can truly thrive in the sun.

We want to make progress with our children.

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