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A few days ago, I took the baby out to play, other moms saw An An eating fingers and kept saying:
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"Baby touches everywhere, his hands are so dirty, don’t let her eat them"
Less than 10 minutes At least 3 or 4 mothers persuaded me like this, and I was so frightened that I ran away with the baby!
What's wrong with eating hands, I didn't eat yours, so much care! (Just kidding)
I believe that many mothers have encountered this problem. Why do babies love to eat hands? Should I intervene in eating hands? Let's talk about my experience together.
When I go out, I sometimes eat hands
I. The baby explores the world, starting from the mouth strong 5 p0 p0 _strong 54 It shows that in order for babies to live in nature, they have the ability to suck and grasp from the very beginning.
In other words, Babies start to explore the world by eating their hands. This is the sensitive period of the mouth, commonly known as .
Actually, if you observe carefully, you will find that when babies eat hands, they already have several abilities:
, first of all, they have the awareness of eating hands. Their brains want to issue such instructions;
Secondly, they must be able to raise their hands and squeeze them into their mouths accurately
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Finally, their brains also need to know that they have eaten their hands, and their hands also feel eaten, so the process of eating hands brings them Spiritual pleasure.
You have to eat your hands when you fall asleep. This is also your baby’s sense of safety. Link. Every time you eat your hands,They will link once, and the more times they link, the richer their brains will be.
With the increase of months, not only the movements of eating hands become more and more refined, but they also learned to comfort me by eating hands in different situations.
For example:
An'an started eating his hands at 2 months, and he would not lick his tongue in his mouth and just hold his fist with 9span _span _span _span _span
By 3 months, An'an can already put his fingers in her mouth accurately;
will not only eat her hands for 4 months, but also eat An'an for 4 months Put everything in her hand into her mouth...
When she was sleepy, she would put her index finger into her mouth to comfort herself every time instead of other fingers... _p5br
When you are sleepy, eat your index finger to comfort yourself, and soon fall asleep
When babies eat their hands, that is, when their brains are developing at a high speed, this is necessary for their growth Stage is natural instinct.
If we adults don’t let our children do instinctive things,Then their brains cannot be fully developed;
If we take it away roughly, the baby’s stuff in the mouth will cause their self-satisfaction, which may lead to confrontation. the power of.
An'an once took the toy away on purpose when she was eating a toy, but she became even more anxious. She caught another toy and made louder sucking movements and sounds.
Two hands have to open the mouth
2. Improper intervention in the baby eating hands, the consequences are very serious _span9sp br5 br5 Hands will not only make them more rebellious, but will leave the child with psychological harm.
As the "white bear effect" in psychology says: the more something is interfered with, the more it will occupy people's thoughts and minds.
Therefore, in our daily life, we often find:
When we take the baby's hand from the mouth harder, they will more vigorously.
When we throw the children’s toys aside,Instead, they want to feel it more;
American medical experts have shown that children who are not satisfied with the sensitive period of their mouths are more prone to problems when they grow up. For example, when you are nervous, you chew your fingers, stick your tongue out, and sarcastically sarcasm others easily.
The more we want to correct the baby’s “bad habit” of eating hands, the more the child will have a stronger sense of resistance.
This is also the reason why the more parents do not let their children do something, he gets more and more energetic.
Third, the baby's oral period, smart parents do this
How should parents deal with the baby's oral period? What should we do in the face of the little stinky boy who says "no" more and more vigorously?
parenting expert Li Yueer , in her book "Key Help in Critical Periods", it is mentioned that the baby should be stimulated with toys in time during the sensitive period of the mouth, and four points of attention have been put forward. Matters:
1 pack of tissues can also be fun to play
Too much will cause children to wonder how to choose.Give the child 3 items at most, and each item has a different texture. After the child has no interest in playing for a period of time, replace one of them to ensure that the child has the old toy every time, which will make the child feel more secure.
2. Don't add new toys frequently
Frequent addition of new toys may over-stimulate the baby and make her more anxious or crying. When the baby becomes accustomed to a toy, or no longer likes old toys, add new toys appropriately.
3. Avoid over-disinfection of toys
Just wipe clean with boiling water, moderate bacterial colony will help the baby form his own resistance. An'an's toys, except for the newly-purchased toys, were disinfected with boiling water for the first time, and the rest were washed directly with clean water.
All toys are rinsed with clean water
While giving the baby toys, the oral period should also pay attention to the baby’s vision training. The book also mentions several points:
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1. Provide children with slow-moving objects
when the sensitive period appears, indicating that the baby has begun to explore things outside.At this time, giving her something to move can not only stimulate the development of vision, but also divert the baby's attention from eating hands. Things like Zhuan Zhuan Le and Rattle are all good choices.
Ann was less than 3 months old, I bought her a rattle, and sometimes I stared at the rattle to play, so I won’t keep eating.
2. Provide children with objects that have a slight sound
Only after more than 20 days of birth, the baby can see the 20 centimeters of blurry things. , It can attract more interest.
3. Don't give your baby too many colors
Too many colors can easily mess up the baby, preferably red, blue, and yellow. My baby especially likes red and yellow, and many toys are in these two colors.
An'an’s favorite red tumbler
Baby eating is a key node in natural development. As parents, respecting their growth time is the best gift parents give their children.
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