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There is a plot in "Little Will". Yan Peng and Xia Junshan were chatting, recalling how elegant and beautiful Tian Yulan was when he was not married; it was also an involuntary sigh. Since having Yan Ziyou, Tian Yulan has become like a person.
Presumably this passage will inexplicably poke the sadness of many mothers!
Who doesn't want years to be quiet forever, and who doesn't want to be beautiful and gentle forever? Unfortunately, life always uses helplessness and chicken feathers to force out one's own fangs.
The middle-aged woman said that she had to be speechless and weep in silence.
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When a woman has her own weakness after 10 months of pregnancy; when a baby croaks, a woman who becomes a mother will willingly put on armor.
Because of this weakness and armor, mothers will constantly adjust themselves, adjust their mood, and adjust their lives amidst the contradictions.
The fragile mother
No matter how strong the heart is, when you become a mother, the little bit in front of you will make your mother vulnerable for countless times.
The baby is sick and the mother is fragile; the baby is injured and the mother is fragile; the baby is bullied and the mother is fragile; the baby experiences unfair treatment and the mother is fragile...
And these fragility, the moment the baby looks over, will be hidden immediately. Because it is necessary to give the baby the strength, confidence and courage to lead.
In fact, when she dreams back at midnight, when the fragile mother accompanies her baby and leaves countless tears, she will also be in the tears, vaguely as if she saw her once alone and invincible appearance.
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The powerful mother
No matter how you can't hold it with your hands, and the shoulders can't be weak, once you become a mother, who has never experienced the embarrassment of holding a baby in one hand and carrying a bag in one hand ? Who hasn’t experienced it is exhausted, but has nothing to do with the obviously shameless baby,Have to continue to fight the spirit, the time to accompany and spoil?
Yes, I became a mother, and the baby said he wanted to eat watermelon, let's buy it! Holding a big watermelon, climbing the stairs without panting without fear.
Become a mother, and when she sees her baby being wronged, she will immediately step forward to protect her from the wind and rain. Why are you afraid that the other person is tall or overwhelmed?
Become a mother, where is there too much time for hypocrisy? Looking at the path of children’s growth, they will accompany their studies and grow together. If the parents’ shortcomings, work and career, and even the busyness of their careers, and even the gyroscopic spinning are added, they can survive no matter how tired they are, because of the profession of mothers. , Cannot be laid off.
There is no other way but to make yourself stronger.
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The mother who collapsed
As a mother, if there is no midnight collapse, it is really rare.
Because once you become a mother, you can truly appreciate the special attributes that your child is both an angel and a devil. They often have this ability, which can make you instantly defeated when you are least defended.
So my mother's breakdown always comes in an instant, but she has to digest it quickly, then calm herself down and accept reality.
Tian Yulan in the drama "Little Willingness" these days is the most typical representative of this state of mother. She is very creative, but it is also very difficult. As the child grows up, she has her own thoughts and opinions. As a mother, she still stays in the child's obedient and obedient childhood. How can there be no contradiction? How can it be calm?
However, only mothers can truly understand her mother's behavior, so Nan Li said to Teacher Chen: "You don't understand your parents because you are not married and have no children." So Nan Li finished listening to Yan Ziyou. She said: "Tian Yulan is so sad to hear it!"
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Mom with fangs
To tell the truth, when children grow up, mothers will always have When you can't control yourself, you can yell at your children, scold them and scold them.
It is not that the mother is not gentle enough, but that the child has 10,000 ways to release the devil in the mother's heart. Fortunately, each release not only allows mothers to get a hearty and wholesome vent, but also allows the caring mother to be a milestone for herself, constantly reminding herself to become stronger.
In "Little Will", although Tian Yulan didn't yell at Yan Ziyou, she surrounded the children with love without a trace of free space. Maybe she didn't get angry, but she never put away her fangs. Yan Ziyou was always in a state of grief, and couldn't get a trace of breath.
Therefore, it is not terrible for my mother to show her fangs occasionally, and there is no need to feel wronged and hold her emotions all the time. It is better to give your children and yourself an alternative communication after a hearty vent, which may be able to deepen mutual understanding.
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After all, as a mother, whether it is fragile, strong, collapsed, or showing fangs, it is all a certain state of time.
In the final analysis, you still have to adjust your mentality, allow yourself occasional fragility and emotional fluctuations, learn to let go of your children's various behaviors, use a calm and unhurried attitude, look to the long-term and the future, continue to be gentle and strong!
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