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I have heard such a sentence. I was so stupid when I was a child. I actually hoped to grow up. When I grew up, I realized that my childhood was the best.
When we were young, we were so sad that we could cry, talk, and even write long talks on our social platforms.
. For adults, they are sad and will not express too much because they are afraid that others will see their vulnerability.
For them, if they are sad, they can only remain silent. Even if you write a long list of insights at that time, you will find that this passage is gone when you wake up the next day.
In fact, the more you grow up, the more you are afraid of showing the most real and weakest side of your heart.
So many people have learned to disguise themselves and learn to be silent. Perhaps in the adult world, silence is the most powerful way to express sadness.
In real life, many people encounter problems and suffer silently and digest them alone. When you meet someone who cares about you, you will pretend to be fine and say things against your will.
Adults are used to seeing gains and losses, and have seen too much about human feelings and warmth, and gradually become stronger. But no matter how strong a person is, his heart is still soft.
In the world of adults, you can share beauty and happiness, but you cannot create anxiety and convey negative energy to others.
People will like positive people and will not get along with people who complain all day long and only know how to talk to.
Many people are gritting their teeth and persevering alone, and they still face it with a smile even though their lives are messy.
Perhaps only by surviving that period of no one cares about can you embrace the beauty.
So, the world of adults is not as strong as imagined. The beauty you see is just the light they have been hiding for a long time.
I don’t know, do you feel this way. There are some things you won’t say, because others can’t understand them. Even if others understand them, they will not feel the same way as you. So, people are used to silence.
Our pride does not allow it. We expose the worst side to others, and only you know everything. This is probably the price of growth.
The real growth is to turn the crying into a silent mode, and even if it is hard or difficult, you will still face the wind and rain alone.
Life is your own, you can only bear it yourself, and no one can suffer for you.
Along the way of growth, we will feel the beauty along the way, but there will be storms, which are the norm in life.
The best way to face setbacks is to bravely step over, overcome, and overcome them. The growth process of
is quite sad.
Sometimes when the worries are given to the wrong person, it becomes a burden and pretentiousness. Not everyone in this world will understand you and empathize with you.
Some emotions still have to be digested by yourself. No matter how hard or tired you are, you must learn to heal yourself.
No matter what you are experiencing now, maybe you are facing unemployment or love breakup, you must adjust your mentality and try to calm yourself as much as possible.
Only when a person controls his emotions can he control his life.
Even with injuries, you have to carry the burden forward. Only by persevering until the end can you win. There is nothing that cannot be overcome.
has been hurt and cried, it’s all right, and continue to go to the next mountain and sea.
Summary:
The world of adults is not smooth sailing, and you may be carrying a lot of things along the way.
But it is also because of these experiences that we can grow better.
When you can face all this calmly, you will become a better self.
Even in bad days, you must learn to heal yourself. Nothing can defeat us. As long as you are strong enough inside, you can defeat everything.
