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01, volume beginning
Time is the most ruthless thing in the world. No matter how hard you try to keep it, you still can't stop moving forward.
In the long river of time, birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws. Everyone will experience aging.
People have no future plans and will have immediate worries. As the sunset approaches, how to spend a happy and stable old age requires planning in advance.
When I was young, I had a lot of time to try and make mistakes, but when I reached the age of fifty to sixty, the most precious thing was time. Sometimes once you make a wrong choice, you will never have a chance to make it up.
The key to good or bad life lies in how you choose.
People should plan their life in their old age well and should not take one step at a time. When you reach the age of fifty to sixty, please take these three things firmly to heart to avoid the miserable years of your old age.
02. Be kind to others and leave a way out for yourself
After walking to his old age, he gradually discovered that time has become like a snail crawling and slowed down. It often makes people feel lonely, lonely and doing nothing.
Please manage your connections well when you are fifty to sixty years old. If you have friends, you can live a unique life.
Yang Xiong said: "The nature of a person is that good and evil are mixed. If you practice good, you will be a good person; if you practice evil, you will be a bad person."
People live for a lifetime, and how they are human beings will gain what kind of life.
If you know how to retreat to advance, know how to be kind to others, and be friendly with others, you will gain the sincere treatment of others and warm companionship in life.
If you commit evil to others everywhere, you will make countless enemies and live in loneliness and right and wrong all day long.
On the road to getting old, being kind to others means leaving a way out for yourself.
People will always encounter inconvenience when they are old. If their children are not by their side at this time, neighbors and friends will become their closest support.
Be kind to others. When you have difficulties, your friends will be willing to lend a helping hand. On the contrary, they will only be cold-eyed.
Be kind to others is not only a personal moral cultivation, but also a way out for yourself, conveying kindness, and what you gain is comfort and care.
03. Don’t talk long or nag, keep a clear mind
"The Analects of Confucius·Xianwen" says: "Don’t blame the heaven, do not blame others, learn from the top, and know me the heaven!"
A peaceful life and a clean heart are the greatest happiness.
Many people, after they grow old, they cannot feel their own value because they retire, so they always want to constantly prove how great they were by "expression".
becomes long-winded, nagging, and uncontrollably when talking to others. Especially when talking to younger generations, he used the identity of a "experienced person" to guide his life, what he could do and what he could not do.
In fact, everyone has their own way to go. Different situations and different ideas. Even if you are willing to guide others in your life, others will not be able to understand because of different situations and will not accept them from the bottom of your heart.
Moreover, the more nagging a person is, the more he nagging he is, it is easy for people to feel bored.
When you are fifty to sixty, keep a clear mind, complain less, soothe the uneasy emotions in your heart, and feel the beauty of life with your heart. Keep quiet to cultivate oneself, keep the bitterness and sweetness of life in your heart.
When you learn to "silence", the people around you will like you more and life will be more smooth.
04. Manage your own life well, learn to rely on yourself
scenery and life, and manage it yourself. A better life depends on yourself.
What kind of life a person wants to have can only rely on himself to give. If you pin your hopes on others, you may end up in vain.
From fifty to sixty years old, they are still in good health. Don’t rely too much on their children or lovers too much. Instead, learn to rely on themselves and live a more independent life.
Arrange some life goals for yourself so that you have something to do; cultivate some interests and hobbies for yourself so that your life will be of a unique color.
Cicero said: "People who rely on themselves and have everything themselves cannot be unhappy."
People will inevitably suffer from hard work in this life, but the key to the future lies in how they manage their current life.
years do not serve others, we still need to treat the years well and live a good life.
People should manage their own lives well until their old age, maintain a good attitude, exercise a healthy body, and not drag others down. Learn to rely on yourself and you will embrace happiness in your later years.
05. When people reach old age, they must live a good life.
Life is just a few decades, you must live your own wonderful life, otherwise you will only leave irreparable regrets, especially on the road to old age, you will always be confused about how to live your life.
is actually very simple, love yourself and live a good life.
Life journey is busy, and when you are old, you gradually stop your hurrying steps. If you still do your own thing and treat others noisy, you will be destined to be calm in your later years.
Entering the stage of life from the age of fifty to sixty, live well, be kind to others, keep your mouth under the lifestyle you like, quietly and slowly enjoy the process of aging.
days pass by day, and in the twilight years of life, you still have to live out your own "sense of value".
Plan your life well, and when you love life, life will treat you with gentleness.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
