The world is so big that it is all kinds of wonders. Only those who have experienced success or failure in person can truly awaken and enlightened. Before a person is truly awakened and enlightened, that situation is particularly inferior to others. In this state of embarrassment, a person's life can be destroyed. When you are inferior in every aspect, should you go with the flow, or should you calm down as soon as possible and reflect on what is the fundamental reason for your failure? People's biggest enemy is themselves. The reason why I am poor and backward, accomplished nothing, and was also far away from relatives, friends and neighbors and negative comments are all caused by my ignorance or lack of clue. There is a reason for failure, and there is a reason for success.
people's biggest enemy is themselves. The fundamental problem is that I cannot get out of a passive situation such as poverty and backwardness, accomplishing nothing, being inferior to others, being away from relatives, friends and neighbors, and being negatively evaluated, the fundamental problem is that I cannot overcome my weaknesses. Everyone has their own personality and lifestyle, so they have a colorful life and value.
To overcome one's own weaknesses, start with "mentality, emotions, thoughts, values", because mentality is healthy, emotional, stable, thoughts, firm values, and other correct values are an important link that determines whether one's destiny, life, family, etc. can reach a higher level. I have not noticed that mentality, emotions, thought values and other aspects will lead to my failure for a long time. It is only today that I truly realize that a person must have multiple abilities to base himself on society and change himself to realize his ideals in his heart, that is, the comprehensive ability to adapt to social development. Comprehensive ability plays a decisive role in a person who is in poverty and backward, accomplishes nothing, is inferior to others, is far away from relatives, friends and neighbors and is negatively evaluated.
Your own life needs to be controlled by yourself, rather than escaping contradictions, difficulties and challenges. So you must fight against your mentality, emotions, thoughts, etc., and this struggle is a long-term thing. Why do some people achieve a double harvest of career and family early? This type of people pay special attention to career aspirations. With a job, there is a family. There is another type of person who is middle-aged or old, and is always in a passive environment where he can achieve nothing in poverty and backwardness. Besides, people like them have become accustomed to their living habits. Habits become natural?
People’s biggest enemy is themselves. No matter how old you are, overcoming your own weakness is an important part that determines whether your life can become more meaningful and valuable. Overcoming one's own weaknesses, some measures have been raised, such as starting from the aspects of "mentality, emotions, thoughts, values". 【It is difficult to change one's own destiny, life and family. 】The key problem is that it is difficult for you to overcome your weaknesses. In society, we will see some people who have always allowed themselves to live in a passive environment where they are poor and backward, and they have no shortage of legs and legs, and they have normal thinking. The fundamental problem is that it is too straightforward, with negative mentality, unstable emotions, and too confusing to think and unclear direction.
Life path is a big topic. In addition to the big topic of world mystery, we count the big topic of life path. Since ancient times, our country has had the idea of unity between man and nature, and the concept of harmonious development between man and nature.
No matter what I have experienced in the past, life still has to continue. This is the motivation to change oneself. In society, you will encounter some failures and setbacks, which is very normal. There will also be some ups and downs in life. From these two points, we can see that man and nature must develop harmoniously.
success starts with defeating worries and complaints, that is, defeating one's own weaknesses.When you lose some resentment and anxiety, your mind will become smart and flexible, and your behavior will be more deeply rooted in people's hearts. In addition, keep yourself busy, which is also the most effective way to reduce worries and complaints. People cannot be idle, they will think randomly and worry and complain. It is difficult to be a human being. A happy and fulfilling life requires oneself to create, not fall from the sky, as it can only fall from the trap.
There are many secrets to success, and the most effective secret is what suits you. Success or failure is common in military affairs. A person's life is like leading troops to fight. Because a person’s life has learning stages, working stages, family raising children, elderly care stages, etc., it is like fighting a war. Don’t be afraid of failure, just start over again if you fail.
Mentality, emotions, thoughts, values, etc. are related to the direction of a person's destiny in the second half of his life. These things must be paid attention to at all times. This is also the inner laws and principles of life happiness that I have realized over the years of my life experience. Only by following the rules of mind, emotion, thought and value, will you have a happy life.
success starts with defeating your worries and starting with defeating your own weaknesses. Although the road of life is complex and changeable, only if the mind and mind have comprehensive abilities such as mentality, emotions, and thought values, we are not afraid of all the difficulties on the road ahead.
