We have experienced many wonderful achievements and tasted the sour regrets. If we are too stubborn and always "reminisce about" the past, then the road ahead will inevitably be bumpy. When you reach middle age, remember to close the door behind you and look forward. Only when yo

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We have experienced many wonderful achievements and tasted the sour regrets. If we are too stubborn and always "reminisce about" the past, then the road ahead will inevitably be bumpy. When you reach middle age, remember to close the door behind you and look forward. Only when you know how to turn the article around at any time can you enjoy a brand new and fulfilling life.

Close the door to achievement and learn to zero

"Yesterday's best score is the minimum requirement today." No matter how good your score was yesterday, you should start with it as zero. The reason why people continue to move forward and continue to climb one peak after another has a lot to do with their continuous development of high performance goals.

As the saying goes, "A hero does not mention his courage." If you spend too much time recalling the honors of the past, you cannot manage the present. From this perspective, it is sad to be a person who only has the past.

Table Tennis World Champion Deng Yaping , has won numerous awards in its 14-year sports career.

An elder once asked Deng Yaping: "How do you deal with your trophy?" Deng Yaping replied: "My parents used a room as an honor room, which specializes in trophys and medals." The elder smiled faintly and said, "You should put them all away."

Deng Yaping thought about it after hearing this, so she put away her past honors. After retiring, she did not stay in the sports field, but turned her past achievements into school and study.

She has an "empty cup" mentality, starts from scratch, and tries to try and learn new content. After graduation, she continued her studies and finally obtained a doctorate degree from Cambridge University. From then on, Deng Yaping was no longer just a world champion, but also an entrepreneur and host.

Writer Liu Zhenyun said: "The zero-return mentality is to clear everything in your heart, peel off everything you already have, and everything you have to zero." Learn to zero achievements and keep your mind clear, so that you can move forward better without stopping your growth.

Close the door of grudges and learn to let go

Wilde once said: "For ourselves, we must forgive some things. Because a person cannot get up every night and plant thorns in the garden of his soul." When people interact with others, they must understand "turning swords into jade". Hate needs to be resolved, not remembered.

Bi Shumin When she was in elementary school, the school organized a singing competition, and she was lucky to be selected.

One day while practicing singing, a music teacher with long braids suddenly threw the baton and walked around the classroom with a slight face. Finally, he walked to Bi Shumin and said, "Bi Shumin, I always heard someone off tune on the podium, I don't know who it is. Now I finally found it. It turned out that it was you. A mouse shit broke a pot of soup! Now, I'll remove you!"

left an indelible shadow in Bi Shumin's heart. In the decades since then, Bi Shumin had never sang, and even avoided speaking and speeches in public.

Until one day, when she was doing the psychological test of "Who is your important others", the face of the long braided music teacher as strict as a stern face appeared in her mind. At the teacher's suggestion, she gradually let go of the bonds of her soul. At that moment, she felt extremely relaxed and happy, as if she was freed from the talisman.

Everyone has more or less unpleasant experiences. Just chewing on the bitterness of life will only make you feel more and more overwhelmed. Being able to let go of grudges in time is a kind of grand atmosphere, being able to block pain from the door is a pattern of self-salvation.

people reach middle age, letting go is the best relief for themselves.

Close the door of regret and learn to turn over the article

"Fatisure of Life and Death": "The world is like a book, pages are turned over. People should look forward and look back at the old historical accounts."

After experiencing the world, it is not difficult for us to find that knowing turning over is a person's amazing ability.

Rousseau 20 years old, his fiancée temporarily regretted the marriage and left him, which was a huge blow to Rousseau.Many years later, when Rousseau, who had succeeded and famous, returned to his hometown to visit his relatives, his friend mentioned his former "fiancee" to him and talked about his current life situation. Rousseau said that he had already let go and had long stopped holding grudges, and wished her a better life.

The old old accounts are repeatedly reviewed, but they are getting deeper and deeper. Those who make us regret and embarrass us, let them stay in the door behind us forever.

As the saying goes, “Learn to let go of your obsessions and don’t be entangled in memories.” In a person’s life, no matter how we make a choice, there will always be regrets. And everything in the past is the past, and regret can only be regrets. Since regrets cannot be realized, learn to look forward.

One day, you will find that regret is also a kind of harvest. If you turn it over, the beauty will come unexpectedly.

"A person's greatest pain is to be obsessed with the past, and the greatest happiness is to look down on the past." All the past is the prologue. Looking forward everything, we will get closer and closer to happiness.