text/Moran
In this society, there is no change for no reason. Behind all the changes in
is because you see some things and recognize some reality, which leads to a change in your mentality.
says nothing is unchanged.
Love will disappear and transfer, people will leave, tea will cool down, and more things you have experienced, life will become indifferent and will slowly change.
gradually realized that many things in this world are not as simple as you imagined.
Many times, if you keep going, you will be the one who is hurt and wronged in the end.
So, when a person changes, it is because he sees these points clearly.
sees the good and evil of human nature
Many people are full of expectations at the beginning, sincere and kind.
But after experiencing some things, you will understand that in this world, you are not the one who is good to someone, but the other person will be good to you.
The one who hurts you may be the closest and most familiar person you are.
When you are in a low point, you will see the fickleness of human nature. When it is absolutely necessary, others will not easily show their truest side.
When a person sees the good and evil of human nature, he will naturally slowly put away his enthusiasm and will not give in.
Many times, we gradually become taciturn and will not easily deliver our sincerity, because we have seen human nature clearly. Although this is not good, compared to the harm, this is the best way to maintain oneself.
You will never know what a person really looks like in his heart. Don’t overestimate his relationship in others’ hearts, but try to love yourself.
is used to seeing human feelings and warmth
Life is impermanent, with ups and downs, and no matter how good others are, they are others. No matter how unbearable you are, you are the only one.
We live in this world, so don’t expect that others can bring you anything. Only you are your own support.
Look at the warmth and coldness of human feelings and shallowness of the world.
does not treat every enthusiasm unfairly, and does not please any indifference. Don’t squander trust or neglect yourself. If you are tired, you will rest, and if you are tired, you will calm down.
The older you grow, the more you need to learn to take it lightly, especially if you have seen so many things, don’t care too much about others.
See through things, tired and sad, squat down and give yourself a hug. Don't expect others to sympathize with you and pity you.
As the saying goes, only by experiencing the warmth and coldness of human feelings can you understand what the world is.
Ideals are ideals after all. We must learn to return to reality, recognize the status quo, and keep our sincerity when we are used to it, use it to love ourselves well and leave our sincerity to those who are worthy of it.
Understand that people walk on tea and cold
In this society, parents are not the way out, marriage is not the way out, and only oneself is their biggest safe haven.
As the saying goes, a mountain will fall, and everyone will grow old. Only by relying on yourself is the most realistic.
When you reach a certain age, you will understand that many feelings and relationships cannot stand the test. Too many years are peaceful and peaceful, and they cannot resist the passage of time.
It is normal for people to leave tea and cold after all, don’t overestimate your relationship with anyone.
In adult society, life and feelings can all be sacrificed.
When you understand it, you will not even have the idea of blame. People should learn to adapt to society and get used to the impermanence of things in the world. There is no need to regret too much, just be your own light.
Summary:
People’s life is probably because they have experienced more and understand more. Only when they are used to seeing reality can they know how to cherish it.
We must learn to get used to everyone’s departure and learn to take it lightly. We must always rely on ourselves to do the road of life, so that we can be more down-to-earth and relaxed.
