I remember when I first started working, I also asked myself many times, why is it necessary to be daytime during the day, and nighttime must be nighttime? Can't there be other options?
Only now did I realize that the so-called constraints and restrictions all come from yourself, just like during the day and at night. As long as you are willing, who can not let you arrange it yourself?
is like the entanglement of saying love.
is like suffering from work.
is like eating or not eating for a meal.
is like having an appointment with a friend.
is like some people meeting or not seeing each other.
is like whether you can go out or not.
is like whether a relationship should be maintained.
, do you even need to take a shower, can you even say no to refuse, can you even make up your mind to sleep until you wake up naturally, and even use a day to be completely quiet.
All, all, reluctant, tangled, unselectable, wasting time and energy, how many emotions must be faced and cannot be decided or arranged by yourself? Is there any?
This is a question that cannot be thought about seriously, because when you think about it, you will feel panic. Yes, it is obviously very ridiculous, why do we still want to do this and get ourselves into the rules?
What can I do if I don’t eat a meal?
What can I do if the day and night are reversed?
Give up what you want to give up, stick to what you want to stick to, don’t like it if you don’t like it, don’t like it if you don’t want it, so what can you do?
actually can't do anything, but we don't dare. My friend has a saying about this, "If you have the ability, you will live alone!" As long as you are alone, you don’t care about how you live, no one will care about you, no one will care about you.
This is the answer.
Life gives you thoughts, and thoughts are completely free, but the realization of each freedom in reality sets rules. Once you break out of the rules and ignore the rules, what you face is life that allows the crowd to gradually exile you to a place where you can never come back.
Therefore, what can be arranged by oneself and free by oneself must be a person, privately and quietly, and cannot be seen by too many people, especially those who accompany you. Otherwise, it will be very hurt.
Because someone cooks you a meal and eats you with a meal, that's not just a meal.
Because there are people who accompany you to sleep at night, accompany you like a dream, that night is not just night!
