Article Author: Tao Fa Nature
We live in a ever-changing world, and our lives have to experience countless people and things.
From ancient times to the present, seeking profit and avoiding harm has always been a major concern for us. Everyone wants to be safe and worry-free all their lives, but how many people can truly do this?
As the saying goes, "The car in front has fallen down thousands of times, but the car in the back has come here and it is still here." What is regrettable is that many people "fall into eternal regret" on the road of life!
Only by keeping a clear mind at all times can we save ourselves in adversity; when good times are seen, we can see the seeds of danger hidden behind prosperity.
This requires us to do: Think about changes in adversity, restrain ourselves in good times, be calm when encountering big things, and stay away from bad things!
. Thinking about changing in adversity
Since you can't find a reason to stick to it, then find yourself a reason to start over!
If you are in adversity and live a mess, it means that you have serious problems in your choice, wisdom, ability, self-discipline, etc.
At this time, you must immediately calm yourself down, think deeply, find the reasons from yourself, find the reasons and change yourself. Avoid yourself getting deeper and deeper in the quagmire of mistakes.
When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that this pain is not eternal. But the premise is that you have to "think about change," you have to find out the reasons and change yourself.
You must know how to adapt in life, especially in adversity. Flexibility in dilemma is the beginning of success.
If you are poor, change will change; if you change, you will be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to
2. Continue in good times
"There will be troubles when people are crazy, and there will be rain when they are crazy." When life is prosperous and proud, you must be low-key and restrained, otherwise disasters will come at any time!
Looking at the past and present, those who die in the middle of the journey and pay the price of their lives are often at the most proud time in their lives.
" Caigen Tan " says: In adversity, you will be criticized and stones all over your body, and you will be sharpened and you will not realize it; in a good situation, you will be full of weapons, swords, spears, and bones, but you will not know it.
means: When a person is in adversity, he is like a needle and applying medicine all over his body, which is most beneficial to his will and behavior; when a person is in promising situation, he looks around him with sharp weapons that hurt people, which is most harmful to his body and will.
So many people have lost their self-discipline in the prosperity, been blinded by victory, and lost themselves.
When things are good, you must be low-key, restrained, and be prepared for danger in times of peace. This is the great wisdom of life.
3. When encountering major events, be quiet
. If you can calm down, you will win!
A true expert has long quitted his emotions and turned himself into a "silent mode." Especially when encountering major things, he will not be impulsive or rush to make decisions, but will be able to calm himself down, think carefully, and then act.
When encountering major events, you can calm yourself down, so that you can keep your mind clear, make far-sighted, learn from the subtleties of heaven and earth, and observe the laws of all things; if you can calm down, you can keep your mind calm, not disturb your advance and retreat, and be calm and unstoppable and disgraceful.
to achieve Taishan collapses in front of her eyes without changing her face, elk runs around her without blinking her eyes.
can then control the stakeholders and treat emergencies most correctly.
The story of "Daitty as a Wooden Chicken" tells us that "quietness" itself is an invincible force!
4. Stay away from
When encountering bad things, it is time for you to subtract yourself.
Life is short, the rest of your life is expensive. Don’t waste your time on the bad things that consume you. When you reach a certain age, streamlining yourself and staying away from bad people and things is the greatest responsibility and love for yourself.
Follow the flies and find the toilet; follow the bees and find the flowers.
A friend of mine, there are several classmates who have always had a bad reputation and often fight.He also knew it was not good to be with them, but once, due to the face of his classmates, he agreed to their invitation and went out for dinner with them. As a result, his classmate drank too much, provoked trouble, and started fighting with the people at the next table. This friend was broken with a beer bottle and still left scars that will never disappear.
There is a Chinese folk rumor: fish find fish, shrimp find shrimp, and turtles find turtles.
can only protect yourself well if you are not good at planning and stay away from people with distorted views.
Conclusion:
Zhuangzi said: Life is like a flash of time, it’s just a sudden moment!
People’s lives are very short. How to spend our lives in a short life, smooth, fulfilling and without regrets depends on our wisdom in life.
When I was young, happiness was very simple, and when I grew up, I was happy. As long as we are not too worried about gains and losses, and do not add to ourselves, and follow the way, we will definitely have a happy ending.
On the road of life, change when you are in adverse circumstances, restrain yourself when you are in good times, don’t be impulsive when you encounter big things, calm down first, stay away from bad things when you encounter bad things, choose good things and make friends with good people.
This is enough for a lifetime!
2022.10.28
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