There is a saying that goes, "Ten years, ten years, ten years, and the west", everyone's life is arranged, you cannot always be smooth sailing, and you cannot always be in bad luck. We must be cautious when we are in good wind, and we must lie dormant for the opportunity when we are in bad times.
Although people in a down-and-out heart are very depressed, they must raise their fighting spirit and cheer up and enrich themselves. Even if they are down-and-out, they cannot do the following three things:
1: Talking about your suffering everywhere, complaining about others.
People should not tell their suffering everywhere when they are in difficulties, but should keep a low profile and improve their abilities and lie dormant in low places to look for opportunities. Once there is a chance, they can take decisive action to seize the opportunity.
Because it has no meaning to tell others about your suffering. People are in different environments and different things they encounter, it is difficult to empathize with you. Besides, if you tell your own difficulties with grievance, others may not sympathize with you, but on the contrary, you may be secretly happy. Because human nature is to hate others and laugh at others. Your downs and downs are the laughter of others, and your telling is the resource for others to laugh at.
may also be your complaints, others seem to give you the so-called comfort. But what effect can this comfort play? If you want to change the status quo, you have to rely on your own efforts, put your sufferings and lose all your hardships in your heart, turn your unhappiness into motivation, enrich yourself and train yourself, and find opportunities to turn the tables on your own.
2: Borrow usury and become a deadbeat.
People cannot be in a downfall for the rest of their lives. Difficulties are temporary, it depends on how you think and do it. Some people will lose their lives when they are down and lose their lives. They waste their years and attribute their depression to God's unfairness every day. They don’t work hard or work hard, and they don’t change the status quo, and they still have to continue to enjoy life, borrow usury regardless of consequences, and finally they can’t afford to pay it back, so they start to be deadbeats. Some people even cheat their relatives in order to borrow money, which has no bottom line and no morality.
Ten years, Hedong and Hexi, no one will be smooth sailing. No matter how down and out, you must have a bottom line. You cannot even lose morality just because of difficulties. Borrowing money can be turned around, but you have to learn to be grateful. Thank you for someone who is willing to help you when you are down, instead of cheating your relatives by taking advantage of the other party’s trust in you.
3: Accept alms and take advantage of it.
People do not eat food given by pity, and no matter how down and out, they must be honest. They must strive for what should belong to them, and they should not belong to them will receive their merits and rewards.
There is a saying that says "eating people with short mouths and soft hands". Although this sentence is a bit absolute, it also tells people not to take advantage of it at will. Especially when you are in a downturn, people should have the spirit of working hard. They should not think about relying on others to give to themselves, but they should have the courage to burn their boats and the arrogance to not eat the food they give them.
For example, other people’s small favors, or some gifts with purpose, or even asking you to pack leftovers after a meal. These small benefits must not be seen.
It is temporary to have difficulties, and you will definitely be able to turn the world around.
is written at the end: A person’s life is hard work, and as long as he works hard, the iron rod can be ground into a needle. I am afraid that you will never recover, and I am even more afraid that you will accept the alms with peace of mind.
A person’s life is a life of struggle. Trouble may not be successful, but if you don’t struggle, you will definitely not be successful. When you are down and out, you must show the spirit of winning and the courage to burn your boat. If you say less and do more, don’t blame others. If you are down-to-earth, you will overcome all obstacles step by step. Then success will definitely be waiting for you not far away.
