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You should not have the intention to harm others, but you should not be careful of others.
In interpersonal communication, people who know how to be careful and know how to leave a way out for themselves are actually not scheming, but rather a rare kind of cleverness and soberness.
Because he knows that human nature is complex and changeable, you will never know whether your heart-to-heart and unreservedness can be exchanged for the same response.
If the other party cannot be honest with you and treat you honestly, then your efforts may become a joke and your trust may be used.
So no matter who we get along with, we must be careful and not show some of our trump cards easily. This is the greatest protection and responsibility for ourselves. Especially after the age of fifty, you must take good care of yourself and know how to restrain yourself.
1: Can't tell others how many assets or deposits you have
After the age of fifty, your life has become stable. How many assets or deposits you have will directly affect your quality of life, confidence and sense of security in the second half of your life.
But this is your own private matter, the private matter of your entire family, there is no need to tell anyone else.
No matter what your purpose is, telling others your privacy at will is actually giving others a chance to hurt you. You have no reservations and become transparent in front of the other side. Wouldn't it be easy for him to hurt you?
Relatives or friends know that you have a strong family background and a lot of savings. If you have a bad idea, you will deliberately borrow money or ask for your help. How do you deal with it?
Knowing that they are uneasy but they have no choice but to do anything, because they have said it and it is difficult to end. But if you forcefully agree for the sake of face, it is equivalent to burying trouble for the future. Isn’t this causing trouble for yourself? So it’s the greatest cleverness that I’m so clever at the beginning.
2: You can't tell others about your ridiculous things or romantic things
Some people are too simple and always speak without going through their brains. No matter who they get along with, they can easily reveal their own affairs at will. Even some ridiculous or romantic things when I was young, I didn’t have any advice.
Do you think you are very humorous, but you just like to laugh at yourself, but what if you are a person with a heart, make a big fuss and spread it maliciously? Then your reputation may not be preserved.
For example, if your romantic affairs are spread to your partner's ears, wouldn't she be very sad? If it is slapped in the face by parents, children or other relatives and friends, wouldn’t you be embarrassed and embarrassed?
Some things are gone, and don’t mention old things again. This is not glorious.
Be careful in everything and don’t overestimate human nature. This is actually a kind of rationality and soberness.
3: Can't tell others that your children are very capable and are filial to you
Every parent hopes that their children will become dragons and daughters will become phoenixes. Since that is the case, why can't their children tell others about their promising and capable people?
This is because you are not sure how the other party will view this matter. If he sincerely wishes you and is happy for you, it is your luck; what if he is jealous of you or is jealous of you? You may not be able to defend yourself.
You will never know who will not be able to see you. This uncertainty will put us in various hidden dangers. Therefore, no matter how capable the children are or how filial they are to themselves, there is no need to promote them everywhere.
This is family privacy, just know it in your heart. Sometimes the more you show off, the more you are, the more you are causing trouble for yourself.
Some parents are very wise, their children have a monthly salary of tens of thousands, but they tell their relatives and friends that only have a few thousand. Do you think they are stupid? In fact, it's just the opposite. This kind of low-key is really smart.
In interpersonal communication, we can be sincere and honest with others. This is our attitude and principle in dealing with people. However, when facing some people, we must be more careful and we must also know how to keep a low profile in some things.
Because human nature is complex, there are many things that you have not experienced before, and you cannot be sure of at all.
No matter who you get along with, don’t show your trump card easily. This is actually a kind of intelligence and vision. After all, only by knowing how to leave a way out for yourself can you avoid narrowing the road or even going to die.
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