When autumn comes, there will always be a wave of collective anxiety, because autumn will remind us to look back at the harvest of spring and summer.
Someone saw plumpness, but some people saw the bleakness behind them.
Fallen leaves are falling, silently, but life continues and life is passing.
But, we are all walking a path without a return. No matter how much unwilling or unwilling we are, we can only move forward.
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You are not worried about someone, but your fear of the future
8-year-old Wang is getting married. He held the girl and met the parents with a smile on his face, as if there was always this girl by his side.
But everyone who knows him knows that it is another girl who accompanys his whole youth.
The girl was his college girlfriend. She has been with him for four years and has been together after graduation, almost at the point of talking about marriage.
But for some reason, the relationship came to an abrupt end. The girl moved out of Wang's home and returned to the city where her hometown was sadly located.
No one mentioned this girl again, only I felt worthless for her. Behind this relationship came to an abrupt end, Wang’s parents actually had long minded the girl’s single-parent family.
This is not a problem that just happened. This is a problem that has always existed. When you are still in love, you turn a blind eye to it. When you don’t love it, these problems become fatal factors.
can not love you, but this approach is really not open and honest. If there is really cause and effect in this world, I hope that the result can come as expected.
It is said that the girl has been sad for a long time. I really want to tell her that life is still long. Such an ending is to save her. She will meet better people and she deserves to meet better people.
Many people will struggle for a long time for a person, but in fact there is no need.
Many of the fears about loss come from fear of not being able to meet in the future and fear of losing the ability to make yourself happy.
So I will hold someone and make myself unrecognizable. This is a game about destruction. It will not exchange for love, but will only destroy myself.
True love exists for the final separation. There is no love outside of you. Only if you are strong enough and self-consistent enough can you meet love.
Otherwise, it will be begging and in vain.
people can "become their own", and when you have enough, you can only be divided into others if you have love, otherwise you can only be a beggar.
An encounter, you light up yourself and shine a person's eyes, which is far better than all long and meaningless life.
You don’t have to be sad about this, you just need to know that you have completed a growth and a purification.
He has his future path to go, and you have yours, it doesn’t matter whether it’s gain or loss, nor does it fail. Everyone’s life ultimately has to define it by themselves.
As long as you do it, don’t forget your original intention and remain sincere.
Fate is magical. It will definitely tell you all the answers one day in the future. Before that, you must not lose yourself.
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We must strive to be the chooser, not the chosen one
Recently I was reading Li Dan 's book, and was surprised that I could understand his sadness and confusion.
Compared with ordinary people, he has been very successful, but he still has something he can't digest and will occasionally suffer in some emotions.
Li Dan had no concealment about himself. He said that he could not save anyone, and his original purpose of doing talk shows was just to make money.
No matter how the outside world thinks of Li Dan, I think he is a very talented person.
His pain is not that he does not have enough money to spend, nor that he is not that he is not popular enough, but that he is too sensitive. He always wants to find out the meaning of living. He hates certain rules of this world.
He said that the world is not worth it. He said that he is a person who does not love others, is afraid of being loved, and longs for love.
He is smart and contradictory. In his eyes, people are animals that have to be tall, short, fat and thin when they get together, and he doesn't want to play this kind of game.
You see, this is how people are. When they have no money, they yearn for money. After they have money, they still have new entanglements. We always feel that we will be happy if we climb a little further.
It’s a pity that there is indeed happiness on the top of the mountain, but the pain is much the same.
I think the only thing that can save us is to get the right to choose, so that at least, you can choose what to bear and what to lose.
instead of being held back by life and being forced to accept things you don't want to endure at all.
A life that compromises all the way will make people feel disgusting, exhausted, unable to see hope, and fall constantly.
All our efforts are not to overtake others, but just to choose something, that's all.
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Love yourself, just like making a living by it
The biggest failure in life is not to have nothing, but you don’t want to be yourself.
Many people spend most of their energy on envying others, envying others' careers, envying others' appearance, longing to have everything about others, and the only thing they don't want is to be themselves.
How sad this is, God has carefully created you and has entrusted you with important responsibilities, but you only want to be someone else and are indifferent to yourself.
"We have obtained the stars of life, and then were given the mission of discovering ourselves by the universe, and our journey has just begun."
You must understand that everyone has their own mission, and you cannot be useless unless you give up searching from the beginning.
Compared with being a person's partner, affecting the world, etc., a person can make himself himself more important than anything else.
The meaning of life to us is to live out oneself. You don’t have to be a rose. If you want, you can grow into sunflower .
I like special things very much and I think special people are super attractive.
Those who dare to be themselves and exude love always have their own light.
Just like the Korean actress Kong Hyo-jin, who held today's wedding, she is 42 years old and married in sneakers, and married a very talented singer.
In the Korean entertainment industry, she has never been pretty. Many people even say that she is old, but she said that it would be boring if everyone is as beautiful as the same.
Her outfits have her own style. She has won the love of many people with her outstanding acting skills. She enjoys her life very much.
She lives a relaxed and free life. She loves everything about herself. She is the inconspicuous little white flower in the garden, but she has always had her own style.
s, super cool.
What I can understand love for myself is to accept everything about myself, to complete self-growth and transcend self-nature. Today is better than yesterday, and tomorrow is better than today.
Do not blindly follow, do not be arrogant, do not give up, be yourself openly, and be yourself openly, and at the same time, you can realize your own limitations and dare to constantly correct them.
"God makes people lonely through various ways so that we can move towards ourselves."
Don't be greedy for excitement, and don't be afraid of loneliness. Every day in life faces yourself warmly and sincerely, you will see you and see the preciousness.
Then, the past is all fake, and memories are a road without a return. May your heart have a direction and no longer be sad.
