1. When you are unhappy, you always want to do something, such as cutting your hair short, running ten kilometers, and deleting all your friends and Weibo. In fact, you can only live a good life, life is not easy, and take good care of yourself.
2. You must understand that only by walking the path you must take can you live the life you want, and only by enduring the days when no one cares about can you embrace your poems and distance.
3. We always like to constantly speculate on the other person’s mood, constantly suspect the other person’s thoughts, and then start to be frightened, start to worry about gains and losses, and start to blame ourselves for not being good enough. Experience tells you that caring too much is the beginning of loss.
4. In life, we need two abilities, speak well and stabilize our emotions. The most mistake we have made is probably to get angry at the most innocent people around us when we are in a bad mood.
5. People cannot be idle. When they are idle, they will think too much, and when they are idle, they will have feelings flooded. The so-called pretentious things are too much, emptiness, loneliness and coldness are all because of laziness and depravity.
6. Everyone has two paths in life. One is about walking with heart, which is called dream; the other is about walking with feet, which is called reality. If your heart walks too slowly, the reality will be pale; if your feet walk too slowly, the dream will not fly high. The wonderful life is always beautiful in your heart and can be united with your steps.
7. On this train that cannot be turned back in life, you must always get used to those sudden farewells without saying goodbye. You must understand that some people appear to teach you regrets and separation.
8. If you relax your demands on others, you will not always be disappointed; if you are stricter on yourself, you will not always be frustrated.
9. Popularity is not how many people know you, but how many people are willing to help you; connections are not how many people you have used, but how many people you have helped; popularity is not how many people praise you in front of you, but how many people praise you behind your back.
10. When a person is not on the same frequency as you, even if every word you say makes sense, he will not listen. Moreover, the more reasonable you make, the more annoyed he will feel you are.
11. When a person reaches middle age, if he does not look elegant, he will inevitably have a superficial appearance; if he does not look calm, he will inevitably have a desperate appearance.
12. When you feel that life is not so satisfactory, when you are not so satisfied with your performance, when you are disappointed with the person you love or yourself, when you feel that you can no longer hold on, please remember to say to yourself: It doesn’t matter, we all grew up like this.
13. If you see through things, you will understand how to stop; if you see through people’s feelings, you will understand how to get along with them; if you see through things, you will not want to do things; if you see through people’s feelings, you will not want to be a human being.
14. You must give up ineffective social interaction. It is difficult to be friends if you disagree with your values. There is no need to talk about so many big principles. If you don’t think about it at the same level, you don’t need to convince each other.
15. In this era full of material desires and impetuousness, no one cares about what you think, and no one pays attention to what you do. Before you achieve your achievements, you must endure the loneliness and loneliness of torture your soul, correct your cynical and inclined mentality, and resist the temptation that often comes.
16. You can earn money again when you have no money, you can make friends again when you have no friends, and you can find love again when you have no love. Remember, you don’t lack anything, what you lack is the courage to start over.
17. Only after the pain can you know how to protect yourself; only after crying can you know what heartache feels; only after being stupid can you know how to persevere and give up at the right time; only after loving can you know that you are actually very fragile. In fact, life does not require so many unnecessary persistences, and there is nothing that really cannot be given up.
18. There are many things that have become old before you know how to cherish; there are many people that have become old before you have time to put your heart into it. Whether you notice it or not, life is moving forward. If you don’t sell round-trip tickets in life, you will never lose anything. We all age too quickly but are smart too late.
19. The rest of your life is not that long. Don’t just give, and be used to those who are eager to get ahead. Please be loyal to yourself and live as you were in the beginning.
20. Life is short, why bother to care too much.If you are heartbroken, you will become numb; if you are overdrawing tears, you will become heartless in the future. Not that brave, at least you can face it calmly; not that perfect, at least you have a clear conscience. Life is about crying for yourself and laughing for others.
21. If God doesn’t give you difficulties, how can you see through people’s hearts; if God doesn’t give you failure, how can you find out whether the people around you are true or false; if God doesn’t give you loneliness, how can you reflect on yourself; if God doesn’t give you gentlemen and villains in your life, how can you know how to improve your IQ! God is fair to each of us. If someone makes you cry, someone will definitely make you laugh.
