Maybe it's because of my bad temper or maybe it's because of my impatient personality that when my grandfather was still alive, he would tell me about other people's competitive things from time to time. Unfortunately, I was young at that time and had a sweet family, so I naturally couldn't understand what my grandfather wanted to express, but after saying it many times, I still had ears.
Grandpa said he had seen people who fought twice because of quarrels caused by small matters. One jumped up and down and the other sat firmly and watched coldly. But in the end, the person who was calm often returned triumphantly. Why do you think? Because truly powerful characters are often not noisy, introverted and steady, not showing off, not ostentatious, not taking action, but once they take action, they are a ruthless move.
Now that I think about it, it really makes sense. No wonder Wang Xiaobo said that blindly making progress may not necessarily lead to success; on the contrary, calm thinking in the ordinary can better solve the problem. I guess this is what my grandfather said before.
can be said that everything comes first and reason comes later. It seems that the most indignant thing is, but in fact it is the most insulting in the end. Because people have long devoted their energy to their emotions, let alone it is difficult to solve problems, they may accidentally be exploited by others.
means this meaning, you understand the truth and understand everything, but when you implement it in life, most people will still fight for right and wrong like me, with self-prejudgment, and discuss right and wrong. Especially when things exceed expectations, don’t be calm and you will panic. So the more panicked and the more chaotic you become, the more you make mistakes, and the more mistakes you make, the more you lose.
Although I have repeatedly reminded myself not to panic, be calm, but I just can't calm down, my mind seems to be full of paste and I can't figure it out at all. What to consider clearly the causes and consequences, what to weigh clearly the pros and cons and then take action has long been thrown out of the sky, one word, urgent. Still wandering around.
According to those supreme sayings, Lin Qingxuan looked at the world with a quiet heart and lived a life with a happy heart; what Weng Tonghe (hé), he always had a calm mind when facing major events, and did not believe that there was no ancient sage today; what is the power of heaven than the sun, the power of earth than electricity, and the power of man is greater than the heart, all kinds of things do not work. The word "quiet" in
seems to like to fall out every time you encounter something and not come out to block it. It gives the owner a buffer time so that he can find a relatively reasonable solution after thinking rationally, and then use quiescent control to solve the problem so that the risk can be saved.
But people can't settle the instigation of emotions. Even small things can become major events when the sky falls under the flood of emotions. So some people will be entangled with trivial matters and quarrels, which will eventually turn into fists and feet; some people will explode after encountering urgent matters. A little bit of trivial matters will eventually lead to a life-threatening disaster...
It's a pity, after the rage, all the consequences will eventually be paid by themselves. No wonder Shakespeare said this: "Who can stay calm in shock, stay stable in rage, and stay awake in anger, and be honest in anger, who is the real hero."
said it wonderfully! Your attitude is hidden in your emotions, and your attitude determines your actions, so be sure to avoid impulse being a devil. Instead of confronting emotions, it is better to take a step back, learn to calm yourself, learn to accept your fragility and disbelief, give yourself some time and some expectations, and let yourself unknowingly gain the quietest strength in your life.
Because only when the mind has no distractions can you learn moves; only when the mind has a quiet place can you deal with life. In this world, the so-called good life is nourished by a calm heart, a peaceful state, and a dull life. Don’t be disturbed by others, don’t be confused by external things, and cultivate fences and plant chrysanthemums in your own world.
The real winner in life, let alone changing life into a silent mode, but they are often people with thunder in their hearts and faces like a flat lake. So, the color of life depends on your attitude towards life.
As the writer Made said: "This world seems to be complicated around, with all kinds of people, all kinds of mud and sand.In essence, it is still your own world. If you are clear, the world will be clean. If you are simple, the world will be difficult to be complicated. "
So, no matter when, you must settle your heart first. Only when your mind is calm can you coordinate and unify the inner strength and deal with complex life. If your heart is calm, there will be no external storms.
Only when you are calm can you clear the appearance of your eyes and quickly find the root of the problem and the key to breaking the deadlock; only when you are calm can you eliminate distracting thoughts, return to your original heart, find the password to pass the level, and then peel off the thread, find the key to the problem, turn defeat into victory, and become a winner in life.
Of course, it is not difficult to overcome difficulties. The difficult thing is to overcome your own emotions and calm yourself down. I wonder if you have found clues. When the calmest time in your life is your strongest moment?
