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The word "inferiority" has always been with me. When I was a child, I never dared to raise my hand to answer questions. Even if I was called by the teacher, I was blushed and did not dare to make friends on my own initiative. I felt that I could not bring value and happiness to others. Those confident children were always favored by parents and teachers. For me, it was too difficult to open my emotions, and it was too difficult to show myself.

Excellence and inferiority are not contradictory

always feel inferior because of not being good enough, stop moving forward, and missed many opportunities. So you subconsciously tell yourself: You have to work hard and work hard to become better and better, so that you are worthy of being liked.

But in fact, this sentence itself is inferior, because you have to think how bad you are now, so that you will feel that the better and better self is more worthy of being loved in the future.

Later I found out that excellence and inferiority complex are not contradictory. It is not that the better you become, the better you will not be inferior. In other words, excellence is not the most effective way to cure inferiority. No matter how outstanding or powerful a person is, he will be inferior.

Even if it is excellent as Dong Qing , inferiority will come unexpectedly. In an interview,

She said: Everyone thinks I have done a good job, but sometimes I still feel inferior.

In fact, everyone has a little inferiority complex to a greater or lesser extent.

Because of inferiority, they are always unconfident, worried about gains and losses, afraid of failure, and always care too much about the outside world's thoughts. They always feel that the people around them are looking at you with mocking and contemptuous eyes.

Because of inferiority, he always hides in his own safe house, always escapes when encountering problems, fearing that he will be rejected, afraid of making embarrassment, and dare not take a step.

Everyone also wants to get rid of inferiority and live confidently, but many times, the purpose of "get rid of inferiority till you" is the right one, but the wrong method is chosen.

For example, many people think that I am not good-looking enough and have a good figure, so I feel inferior. As long as I become beautiful and have a good figure, I will be confident.

The result found that there will always be someone who is more beautiful than you and has a better figure than you. No matter how hard you work, you will still feel inferior. Why? Because the key to defeating inferiority is never in others, nor in objective material things. No matter how many people like you, how much money or how high the status you have, how many people praise you, no matter how outstanding you become, you will still feel inferior. All human affairs cannot cure your inferiority, except yourself.

Relieve inferiority, you only need to accept yourself

Even if you have not been loved and treated well, it does not mean that you are not worthy of being loved. For us, you must believe that you are the most worthy of being loved. This is the only way to completely resolve inferiority.

As Yu Minhong said: In this world, only if you overcome fear and the eyes of others can you grow.

We must learn to accept ourselves. In the final analysis, inferiority complex still stems from our uncertainty about the unknown result. We will feel fearful if we doubt ourselves. We must find a way to overcome our fear and ask ourselves what we are afraid of? Don’t be afraid of failure. Even if you fail, what’s going on this time? The world will not change because of this. You are still you, and tomorrow will still come.

Don’t always underestimate yourself. You should improve your awareness and learn to affirm yourself. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Don’t care too much about the eyes of others when you walk on the street and think everyone is looking at you. In fact, most people are busy with their lives. How can they care about you? Don’t give yourself too many psychological hints about others’ viewing you. Others’ evaluations of you are not necessarily true. Be yourself well and like yourself.