Life is like tea, floating and ups and downs, calm when it is sunny, calm when it is floating,
must be able to take it and let go.
Therefore, don’t waste your life on the people and things you hate.
live the life you like, love the people you like,
do what you like, and live the life you deserve.
A person can make himself more important than anything else.
1.Don't draw outlines for me
htmlI've chosen path myself I know how to break
I don’t have steel bars and I’m not afraid of others laughing at
When the pain stimulates the nerves, I have the strength to roar
break free from the shackles I flew to the sky
—Lu Hengyu "Don't Want to Look Back"
2. Maybe I'm not the fastest, maybe I'm not the highest or strongest, maybe I'm not the best and smartest, but there is one thing that I can do better than others, that is to be myself.
——Leonard Nemo "Be yourself"
3. There will be time, I will become the master of my time, and I will use my time to do many things I like. —— Roberto Bolano "Detective of the Wild"
4. Don't care about it.
Those people are not you. Think about this and that one time, when did you become so smart?
Just like I have been doing what I want to do, you just need to do what you want to do.
——Xiwei Reform "Flower Story "
5. If you want to go to a high place, you have to use your two legs! Don't let others lift you up high; don't sit on others' backs and heads. —— Nietzsche
6. Have the courage to be your true self, stand alone, and don’t want to be someone else. —— Lin Yutang
7. Fate is just the boring masturbation of the loser, but the cowardly ridicule. People’s future can only be determined by their own will and their own efforts. —— Mao Dun
8. I swear that no matter what I can do, cannot do, lack, or have, I must not hate myself. I must cherish myself and continue to love myself until I die. —— Matsuura Yataro
9. It would be great if I were two people, one would speak and the other would listen, and the other would watch. How I know how I love myself, I don’t envy anyone. —— Simone de Beauvoir
10. Fortunately, how others analyze me has nothing to do with me. —— Sanmao "The Story of the Sahara"
11. You may think you can define me with some tags, but you are wrong because I am always a work being processed. I am my own freedom. ——Sarah Bakewell " Existentialist Cafe "
12. In a peer relationship, you never have to show off or prove yourself. You will respect and understand the uniqueness of each other's lives, just like you identify with yourself. Walking fast will lead to loneliness and brightness, and walking slowly will lead to crowding and freedom.
—— Adler
13. It is more important for a person to make himself himself than anything else. —— Virginia Woolf
