We live in this world, and no one is willing to endure hardships. They always want to find various ways to avoid suffering. There is a saying: "In order to avoid suffering, people have to compete, struggle, dream, and fear, but the result is always more and more painful." Suffer cannot be avoided, so we must face the suffering directly on the road of life and learn to make happiness in suffering. Only after experiencing hardship can you wait until the joy comes. Only when there is bitterness can one have sweetness in one's life and be more wise.
First, the heart is not bitter, and wisdom cannot grow. A writer said: "Suffering makes us think deeply, clarify our emotions, train our will, and give us a further understanding of life, society, and the world." People always think after experiencing pain, because only by thinking can we have wisdom. If suffering is the ladder to progress in life, then pain is the catalyst on the road of life. The hardships are for the purpose of a better life in the future. Only after experiencing suffering can one be peaceful and clear in the heart and face the future life better.
Second, the body is not bitter and the blessings are not heavy. I have heard this saying: "If you don't suffer now, you will suffer in the future, and your old age will suffer." I agree deeply that only by enduring hardships can you become the best person! Genius is just a very unique person. Most people are ordinary people like you and me. They can only endure hardships through diligence and willingness. This is the only way to advance in our lives. Wang Yangming said: "After my travelers, the word "intelligence and alertness" is the best, but diligence, integrity and humility are the best." This sentence tells us that those who learn from me should not be smart, clever, cleverness, but diligence, humility and prudence are the best. Just like the story of Shu Zhongyong tells us that even a talented person is unwilling to work hard and unable to endure hardships, he will only achieve nothing in the end. Being able to endure hardships when we are young can reap the sweetness of life when we are old.
Life's path is always full of suffering, it cannot be avoided and avoided. There is no vain suffering in life. Only after the suffering can the most beautiful flowers on the road of life be bloomed.