Jani Luodali once said: "A person's heart is only as big as a fist, but the heart of a good person can tolerate it."
Indeed, the widest thing in the world is the seabed, the wider than the ocean is the sky, but the wider than the sky is the heart of the people.
Tolerance is not only a kind of courage, but also a kind of courage, and the greatest cultivation in life. Tolerance is great. In people's lives, we should strive to restrain ourselves and learn to be tolerant of words, tolerant of things and tolerant of others.
After all, it is open-minded and compatible, and everything is good.
A truly strong person can tolerate words and things, and can tolerate people more.
1, Rongyan
Good words, gossip, harsh words, you can listen to anything. Listening to opinions and suggestions humbly is a style and an open mind.
Let a person complete a speech, whether it is open or humble, and it is strong but not sharp, and it is all a manifestation of strength. Rongyan needs courage, but he doesn’t have the courage to hear the advice; he doesn’t have the patience to hear the truth.
"Being virtuous must be tolerant."
Only by being a person with a broad mind and tolerant everything can he achieve many qualities. Only when a person can put it aside and "contain" it as the standard of people's life will it be stronger and the road of life will be smoother.
号的完成人 means to seek advice from others.
There will be various sounds in life. Some words, although unpleasant, are very good for our lives.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Qi Jun Qi Jinggong liked drinking very much, and sometimes even drank for seven days and seven nights. As a monarch, if you do this for a long time, your business will be delayed. Therefore, Minister Hong Zhang suggested to persuade: "The king should focus on state affairs and drink alcohol every day. This is the act of a foolish monarch. I hope you can avoid drinking, otherwise please die first."
Qi Jinggong was a little angry and entangled. What Hong Zhang said must be the fact, but he felt that he could not quit drinking. So, he complained to Yan Zi , saying, "I am afraid of losing the joy of drinking, and I don't want Hongzhang to make a fuss. What do you think I should do?"
After hearing this, Yan Zi said, "It would be a blessing for Hongzhang to meet a monarch like you! If he met Xia Jie, King Zhou of Shang would have died long ago?" The entangled Duke Jing of Qi immediately said firmly, "I am afraid of drinking immediately."
Duke Jing of Qi is good at speaking, and although he is scolding, he is willing to accept it. Therefore, under his management, Qi State also became a prosperous career.
Reciting words are not just listening to good things, but listening to good things and bad things.
Zizhi Tongjian seems to say: "Listening to both sides will make it clear; believing in the side will make it dark." Sometimes, each of us is a fan of the authorities and cannot find our own difficulties. It is also helpful for others to point out problems.
. The right and wrong are not distinguished from each other, and the right and wrong are not distinguished. The right and wrong are required to be smart, distinguish between good and flattery. You must also be generous, listen to sweet words, and be frank, "If you listen to both sides, you will be clear, and if you believe in both sides, you will be dark." Only by speaking can you broaden your path and be inclusive.
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Easy, hard, difficult, good, cowardly, everything can be pretentious and do it meticulously. Do easy things seriously, do hard things hard, do hard things with your heart, do good things in a stronger direction, and do cowardly things rationally.
Someone said: "Life is like a deck of playing cards. Everyone wants a good deck, but everyone has a chance to get a bad card." It is not scary to get a bad card. The most terrifying thing is to admit that you lost before you start.
No matter how big or bad it is, don’t care too much. Don’t be happy and extremely excited when you see good things. When you encounter stupid things, you get frustrated and sag like frost hits eggplant.
"Those who plan major events focus on layout first." It is not because a person’s great things are not enough talent or opportunities, but because his mental state is too small and his energy is not enough.
Maslow said: "If the mentality changes, the mentality will change; if the attitude changes, the habits will follow the change; if the habits change, the personality will follow the change; if the personality changes, life will change."
People who cannot tolerate things will feel that the world will collapse when encountering problems; if encountering problems, they will feel that this is an opportunity. Whether things are good or bad, we have to solve it.
Do everything meticulously, down-to-earth and diligently. Don’t ignore it because of its ease, don’t give up because of its pain, don’t be cowardly because of its difficulties, don’t be because of it.
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Cai Yuanpei is a compatible and accepted person in "Awakening Age".
In order to give students the most advanced ideas, he can visit the cottage three times and invite Chen Duxiu, who has no diploma.
In order to give students rich cultural heritage, he can also tolerate the difficult style of Gu Hongming and others.
HU Shi’s article is very well written. He can leave her in Peking University when the other party has not graduated.
Lu Xun is free, he can also make him an idle person, and even if he appreciates him, he doesn’t have to pull him into Peking University .
Once, Tongcheng sent leader Lin Ju to attack Cai Yuanpei, denied the New Culture Movement he supported, but Cai Yuanpei didn't care at all. Instead, he tried his best to recommend better places for him.
This made Lin Xue feel ashamed and he quit the war.
It is precisely because of his thoughts that Peking University has been reformed and has become a paradise of academic freedom.
Even in the turbulent era, Peking University has cultivated countless talents for the country.
He resigned from Peking University 8 times for various reasons, but no matter where he went or when he was, he was called the eternal principal by Peking University students.
Xu Renren once said: "Only lenient can tolerate others, only thrift can load goods."
Cai Yuanpei is like this, using loyalty to give the people around him the most powerful usability, and because of loyalty, the people around him are willing to support him unconditionally.
After all, a person's thoughts can get as many people as they can.
Li Si also said: "Sea Tai cannot have soil, so it can become bigger; rivers and seas do not choose thin streams, so it can become deeper."
In this world, what attracts people is not force, but a tolerant heart.
Love others, people will always love; respect others, people will always respect them; tolerate others, people will always tolerate others.
Fair, politeness and sincerity are people's standards. Those who judge people by their appearance are ordinary people; those who judge people by their clothes are mediocre people; those who judge people by their officials are villains.
No matter the status, age, achievements or achievements, you can treat it with sincerity to tolerate others. Only by tolerating others can you get the heart, and only by tolerating others can you get the heart.
