"Only those who endure hardships can become the best person"! For many adults, it is not necessarily true!
I believe everyone has heard of the saying "Only those who endure hardships can become the best person."
But I don’t know if you have thought about it, although this sentence has some truth to it. But in many cases, it is not necessarily correct to put it in many people.
Otherwise, there will be no poor people in this world, and there will be no serious polarization.
If you don’t believe it, you can pay attention to the hard-working poor people around you. Or, those who have worked hard for a long time but still cannot see success or make a lot of money. For them, "Only those who endure hardships can become the best" is wrong and unpractical.
Or you can go to the construction site and take a look at the migrant workers who work hard. Then go and see the people singing and begging along the streets on the roadside and in the bustling city. They are also very hardworking, and they are very hardworking, but why do they still beg for the whole day?
Don’t always say to me: “They are all invisible rich people, they can make a lot of money.” I don't believe it at all.
It is undeniable that some "begging people" can indeed make a lot of money, even surpassing the ordinary working class. But most beggars have low incomes. It can even maintain normal food and clothing.
"Terror" can indeed make one's own strength stronger in many cases. Can make your own abilities bigger.
But "end hardship" is definitely not a necessary condition to achieve one person or fulfill one person.
If you are a student, you will have so much hard work, diligent practice, and diligent study. It can indeed make your academic performance soar.
However, if you are an adult, then it is not necessarily correct to endure hardships and become the best.
For an adult, diligence, hard work and willingness to endure hardships are just the engines on your life. "Choose" is the catalyst and the key to the decisive victory.
For example, you are a farmer. If you work hard to grow food, then you will work every day. You can't make much money even after a busy year. At most, it is just a solution to food and clothing.
But, if you grow vegetables, fruits, and economical crops in the field. Then your income will definitely increase exponentially.
After all, a mu of wheat or corn can only earn up to 300-500 yuan if it comes to planting costs. But if you have acre of land, you can grow all fruits, strawberries, , walnuts, and flowers. Then the income of one acre may range from 30 million to 30,000.
This is the gap, this is the difference.
For example, if you choose to move bricks in the factory, your income will be several thousand yuan per month. And I am very tired, and often I don’t have the space and stage to work hard and play.
But if you choose to do your own business, or go to the roadside and set up a food stall by yourself. Then you will find that with the same effort and the same time. Your income is definitely several times more than moving bricks in the factory, or even more.
The same example and the same efforts are still many in real life, and are not limited to these two points.
When you observe the people around you and the friends around you, take a look at their struggle and personal development. You will find that many times, "choice" is definitely greater than effort.
As an adult, don’t believe in the saying “Only you will be the best if you endure hardships”. You must have your own independent thinking and way of thinking.
After all, you cannot copy other people’s success. You can't get other people's wealth either.
Try to be your own good, start from now on. The most important thing is to choose your own path.
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