Work hard and progress are not for others to show it, but for not letting yourself down and time down.
If you don’t work hard, no one can give you the life you want; if you are not strong, no one will be brave for you; if you are not strong, a small difficulty can defeat you.
strives to be the kind of person you like. Even if you don’t succeed, at least you will like yourself as a hard worker.
is worse than relying on yourself than anyone else. The best way to keep fresh is to make continuous progress. The process of self-shaping is difficult, but you will eventually meet a better self!
1. Persist in reading.
When you feel confused, go read it and find the answers in the book.
Reading will let you know what kind of person you want to be, and will give you enough judgment to choose what kind of person you want to be, either ordinary or progressive, or silently stick to your efforts or be a hero to save the world. Each has its own answers.
2. Work hard to make money.
can be said with confidence that when the money you make reaches a certain level, the more confident you will be, and in this way, you can truly become stronger.
In this era, happiness and freedom need to be bought for money. Make more money and accumulate tickets to your distant places and the stars and seas.
3. Calm down and do one thing.
No one who chases two rabbits at the same time can catch any one. Two birds are worse than one bird in the hand. It is difficult for one person to do both things well at the same time.
What you want to do, remember to focus and concentrate.
You should calm down and do things seriously during the day. Many things, serious or not, are actually done for yourself to see.
4. Wait less.
One thought, two things work, three things succeed, one wait, two see, three things fail.
When you think too much and do too little, you are one step away from success. When you wait too long and delay too late, you will be a little further away from your expectations.
In fact, only after doing anything can you know the consequences and only after doing it can you know the result. The confusion and anxiety before taking action are useless.
5. Less complaints.
experiences the time you often complain about, and also experiences the time others always complain about, which has an impact on daily emotions.
always likes to ask people to complain. But I never thought that it was not easy for everyone, it was difficult, and I never thought that others would listen to this miserable or whether they would listen to it as a joke.
Try to be more positive in life and work. Sunny and positive people can attract others more. People who often complain can easily become unpopular.
Don’t complain if you talk to others in three words. Don't live like a troubled person, and rush to tell everyone about your misfortune.
Whenever you feel like you are complaining, stop. Change the topic and talk about the little things that make you happy in life.
Don’t be a person who gives negative emotions to others in life, and try to stay away from those who instill negative emotions in you every day.
6. There are friends who grow up together around you.
This is actually very important. Being with excellent people can make yourself better.
I wonder if you have noticed some stories about "school master's dormitory" and "study for postgraduate entrance examinations in the same dormitory". This is actually the power brought by the environment and atmosphere.
is friends with excellent people, learn more excellent qualities from them, and improve your horizons. Be a partner with excellent people and grow together. Don’t worry that the long journey will not be separated. There is a saying in
: What kind of person we choose to be with will eventually become what kind of person we will become.
7. Everyone does not require that they understand themselves.
I hope everyone is satisfied with you, that is thankless. From different perspectives, you have different views. So, as long as you are satisfied, you don’t have to care about how others judge you.
Those who believe in your own people do not need explanations. Those who understand you do not need too much words. Those who do not believe in your own people do not believe in you. No matter how much they say, they still won’t believe you. Instead, they feel that you are guilty.
Learn to let go, be yourself well, and don’t need to explain yourself every time.
8. Don’t pay too much attention to other people’s evaluations.
Don’t deny your 100% effort because of a 5% negative review.
When you worry about doing something bad because of someone else’s actions, look, or words, your emotions will not be controlled by yourself, and your unhappiness will come.
Life is your own, not your life for others to see. Don’t care too much about other people’s opinions, don’t get lost in other people’s evaluations, just go your own way and be yourself. In this life, I wish you a brilliant and brilliant life and not to be burdened by the eyes of others.
9. Break out of your comfort zone.
Everyone has their own certain safety zone. Learn to go beyond their comfort zone and challenge things that are difficult for them. A person's strength is accumulated from challenges and gained from his sense of accomplishment again and again.
10. Practice your skin.
When your skin is thinner than paper, you will find that doing many things will be one step slower than others. Unless your own job is completely unnecessary to meet people.
practices by communicating with people, communicating more, and by speaking in front of multiple people and expressing your own ideas.
If you want to make money and make yourself stronger, you will have no shame. You will practice deliberately and challenge yourself again and again.
11. Be confident.
Many people feel that they will not do this well in advance. In the final analysis, they do not believe in their abilities. Many people do not like to meet people, but in the final analysis, they are inferior in their hearts and do not want to communicate with others.
usually exercise your communication skills more, take the first step, meet people with ease, and do things seriously. This is also a challenge for oneself.
12. Appropriately improve your bad habits.
is actually a challenge for me. If you want to be strong, you have to lose a little bad habit.
Sometimes some bad habits in your body will turn your previous efforts into vanish, and regretting it will be useless at this time. It is better to work hard to improve from the beginning.
s rarely have people born to understand everything and are born strong, and it depends on acquired learning and self-improvement.
I hope that we can all be free from being influenced by external factors, become people who love themselves and life well, and slowly make our lives better.
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