friend: Two moons that depend on each other, neither big nor small, neither clear nor dark. Perhaps, this kind of friendship is the most comfortable and stable thing for people.
If one of the moons goes out of shape, friendship may change.
True friendship is as light as oxygen in the air. It is intangible and invisible, but every intersection can make people feel refreshed, light and comfortable, and gain strength.
But in reality, there are some so-called friendships that often make people feel uncomfortable. All because there are always people who are obsessed with showing off in front of so-called friends or seeking a sense of superiority. The initiator of
is the uncontrollable comparison mentality. Compared with talents, money, health, children, gray hair, wrinkles... the only thing missing is a good attitude.
This kind of happiness can often only be obtained from winning competitions. It is estimated that the essence of friendship at that time has been misunderstood as being surrounded by stars, or even being dominated by oneself.
Perhaps what was really needed at that time was not friends, but a stage to show off and a round of applause.
Of course, under certain specific needs and scenarios, the stage and applause can indeed give people some satisfaction, but all of this is not due to friendship.
time, people will eventually know everything.
But in fact, if you have light on your body, why do you need to show it deliberately? The person who is attracted to you will naturally move closer to you, all because he or she understands how good you are.
's understanding is cherished behind it. Friendship born from understanding and cherishing is reliable, comfortable and lasting.
The real sense of superiority may be to have a calm and calm face when you are approaching old age, which makes you look more youthful and healthy.
Such a sense of superiority comes from a healthy mentality. With a pure heart and few distracting thoughts, you can think openly about everything, be able to take it on, and let it go...why do you need to deliberately show and pursue it? !
A good attitude is the most superior sense of superiority. The more you compare, the more you desire, the more you work hard, the more you lack!
