Don't let others harvest your time
Huang Yulan
Last night, a lawyer friend said he would ask me for help and modify an essay about the 70th National Day. I know I don’t have this level. I caught Lingling’s sister and Teacher Yiniu asking for advice yesterday. How could I change other people’s articles? However, as soon as I couldn't stand the two "high hats" in my arms, I turned on the computer unconsciously.
An hour in the morning passed. This hour is so precious to me, especially the precious standing time. I "friendly remind" this friend that my time may be more expensive than his attorney fee. He said he was willing to give back twice. If I find something suitable and can "harvest" his time, it will definitely be a matter of peace.
The word harvest has the meaning of harvesting and gaining. Just like the popular "cutting leeks" a while ago, it means that most people's money and wealth were taken away by agents from "upper level". It is said that there are more than 1,000 such money-making institutions on the Internet, and they are inevitably suspected of fraud. But that's it, there are also crops of "leeks" who are willing to be cut.
I don’t know if we have read this article, which is about the internal chat records of a certain institution being exposed, saying that these "leeks" are stupid and deserve to be cut. At that time, I thought people were really sad and helpless, and we couldn’t avoid being cut.
I don’t want my time to be harvested easily by others, especially without cherishing it. After work and family affairs, I have little time left.
We are all ordinary people, just like paper has two sides. Work and family are our two sides, or work is a family at the social level, and it is a place where we can show people and reflect social values. That requires us to do our best and we must do it.
Family, there is no need to say, it is the land, water and sunshine on which we rely on. Without a family, we cannot live. There is no problem that time is harvested in work and family, that is the life itself. Correspondingly, you cannot pay attention to time issues for your colleagues and family. If you can pay attention, it means reducing the time for shirk responsibility, gossip and laziness, studying business, and improving efficiency, so that you can leave some free time for yourself.
I am very willing to get along with my best friends, hardcore, teachers, and people in the circle because I want to draw strength from them and learn some knowledge. That is the power that can support my life; it is the wisdom that can keep me moving forward! As long as they appear, I would rather be harvested by them. In fact, this is not harvest, but a win-win situation. We are all profiting from it, and life is shaped by each other at these moments.
So, I said to them: Be confident, as long as you come, I will put down the book. Or on the other hand, it was precisely because they were not here that I picked up the book, and the book only gave me strength instead of these people. At the same time, the thoughts I read will become vivid only when I discuss with them, otherwise I will be reading hard.
The rest is the time that is easy to be harvested by others. How to avoid being harvested by others during this period? I just try to fill up these times. I use this time to do what I like and visit various places with plants.
My favorite thing is of course reading, preferably paid reading that French writer Chardon Zieg said. Some people must have laughed at me for talking nonsense, but I have the same opinion as him: full-time salvage of good books will be sunk to the bottom of the river and recommend it to those in need. I think this work is very meaningful (did you laugh behind my words when you see me?), and when you become the Minister of Culture in the future, remember to give me a place. Or if you want to start a study industry in the future, you can also come to me.
As long as you can read and don’t let me do chores, you can do it.If I don’t let me read a lot, the consequences will be very serious and I will be furious; you must be careful! Unless I have the ability to talk to me about studying and accompany me for three days and three nights, I will turn around immediately!
Reading, like plants, can calm people's mania. In addition to reading, my time is willing to give plants to do everything related to it. So, I like Pengyuan, the lotus flowers in the ecological garden, and my vegetables. There is also a child who can instantly turn me into a cute state, and it is also a temptation to stop.
Have things you like to do, arrange today's things every morning, follow the steps, plan and goals; implement and check, so that time can be avoided by others. Of course, these schedules can be adjusted.
is said in the book "The Way of Learning" or "Deliberate Practice"? I can't remember clearly. The same point of view as Wang Shuo said in his book "Advance in Yale" is to embrace change. When studying, there is a call to work overtime, or a second child comes to ask for a hug, and immediately adjust your mood and set off immediately or concentrate on accompanying you. Because people who value the quality of life have priorities in their hearts, and their work and family are in the first sequence.
But there are really many people. They seem to rely on others to harvest their time to make their presence feel, and to compassion for others to harvest their time. They feel that they can do it, otherwise they will be extremely bored, so they seem to be very busy, but they have never achieved anything. Because he never knew how to care for his soul, and he didn't even know what "self" was.
I hope your time will not be easily harvested by others, and at the same time, you will not waste other people's time easily! Life is priceless, time is priceless. When you look forward to using money to buy those last few hours, everything will be late!
