The real strength of life is not external strength, but internal strength. People who are strong on the outside but empty on the inside are called strong on the outside and do the inside; only people who are strong on the inside will be as stable as Mount Tai and will not be shocked in chaos.
People with strong hearts often have the following 4 characteristics. Let’s see how many of them you have?
1. Emotions will not fluctuate violently
A truly strong person, his heart is still and warm as a rock. Don’t be surprised by favors and disgraces, and you don’t want to stay or leave. Watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the courtyard, and follow the clouds rolling and unfolding outside the sky. All the successes and failures of life seem to have nothing to do with them and will not be kept in mind at all. No matter gains, losses, success or failure, they can see through and let go, and follow the circumstances, and always keep their inner purity.
If a person with weak heart encounters a little setback or difficulties, he will be like a big enemy, like a desperate situation, jumping up and down, restless, and even blame others, and exuding his anger on others.
2. People who can enjoy a clean
Nowadays, under the influence of fast-paced life, are restless and impatient, and they can't stand loneliness. They can only spend their time constantly working, studying and entertainment, and cannot pause for a moment, and call it "full life". Once you slow down and pause for a moment, you will feel lonely, empty and bored.
A truly strong person, whether he is busy or idle, will always be stable and keep his heart pure, and his body is busy but his mind is not busy. When there is nothing to do, it is loneliness and boredom to others, but it is a kind of enjoyment of life for them.
3. Don’t care about other people’s comments
People who are truly strong inside will not care about other people’s comments and will not live in other people’s mouths. The world praises it without persuasion; the world disagrees with it without discouraging it. They have their own beliefs, their own outlook on life, values, and worldview, and are unswerving. No matter whether others praise or belittle them, they will not be affected. They will do whatever they should do.
. People who are weak inside will care very much about other people's evaluations. Every word they say is very important to them. If others flatter and praise him, he will be very happy and feel that he is very successful; if others ask him a little fault and say a few words, he will be very unhappy and feel that he is very failed. In fact, others just talk casually, and it may not be true, but he cannot tell the difference between right and wrong and takes others' words seriously.
4. You can be calm in adversity
A truly strong person, even if he is in adversity in life and is full of difficulties and difficulties, he can be fearless and calm. If you add it for no reason and don’t get angry, and if you suddenly come to it, you are not surprised. This is the manifestation of such a person in life. Even if life falls to the bottom, they can still face it positively and face difficulties.
. Most people will be very calm and calm in good times, but once they encounter adversity, are desperate or are framed by others, they will be unable to hold back their anger and will be as anxious as an ant on a hot pan. The peace and calmness of the past will not be seen.
