14 essential characteristics to become a girl with a big picture: ✅ People who don’t have a glass heart but have a glass heart can often easily fall into self-denial; a small comment from others can always be thought that they are talking about themselves. Only by discarding the

14 essential characteristics for becoming a big-time girl:

✅ People who don’t have a glassy heart

People who have a glassy heart can often easily fall into self-denial; a small comment from others can always be thought that they are talking about themselves. Only by discarding the glass heart can you truly become a person with a strong heart.

✅ Not afraid of being alone

Being alone is not loneliness, but a kind of ability. People who can be alone are people with a very rich spiritual world. You might as well try to be alone and try to explore a relatively self-sufficient inner world.

✅Don’t gossip

Don’t pry too much into other people’s privacy. If you blindly treat other people’s privacy as something to talk about after dinner, this is not only harmful to others, but also a manifestation of lack of moral sense.

✅Don’t complain (❌)

Don’t complain when things happen. Instead of complaining, it’s better to change yourself and turn the negative emotions of complaining into motivation for growth.

✅ Don’t compare with others

Wan Tite once said, “Everyone’s flowering period is different, so don’t worry about someone having it earlier than you.” What you need to care about is, how much better are you today than you were yesterday? Instead of blindly seeing the success of others and belittling your own ordinaryness.

✅ Don’t show off

Please don’t show off at will. What may be success in your eyes may not be worth mentioning in the eyes of others. The more powerful a person is, the more he will pretend to be ordinary, be humble and gentle, and the more likely he is to win the favor of people around him.

✅Don’t procrastinate

The essence of procrastination is fear. You never dare to step out of your comfort zone, and you are always afraid to take the first step. If you don't give it a try, how will you know the result of taking the first step?

✅ Principled

Being a principled person is the most basic requirement for living in the world. As the saying goes, there is no rule without rules. If a person does not have principles in speaking and doing things, how can he convince others?

✅Have goals

goals plus execution ability. As time goes by, you will achieve explosive growth and gains. If you think too much, it will be a problem. Only when you start doing it will you get the answer.

✅ Well-educated

does not make fun of anyone's shortcomings, does not bring his emotions to others when he is angry, and remains polite and smiles to others.

✅ Be assertive

Figure out what you want in your heart, and don't just follow other people's arrangements and opinions. In this world, the only person who knows you best is yourself.

✅ Have the courage to love yourself

Put your own feelings first, don't feel wronged because of the other person's efforts, remember that loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

✅Have a long-term vision

Don't be obsessed with the immediate gains and losses, take a long-term view and do something with compound interest. Only in this way can you not be tortured by the immediate gains and losses.

✅ Have the ability to continue learning

I have heard this sentence before, you are most afraid that you will be mediocre in your life, but you comfort yourself that being ordinary is precious. The best way to maintain growth is to learn, continuously strengthen and optimize yourself, which is a lifelong subject for everyone.

If you want to be a girl with a big picture, I suggest you do these 8 things crazily:

✅Read a lot

"The World Is Worth"

" Living "

"Inferiority and Transcendence"

" Micro Habits "

"Self-Control"

"Treat time as a friend"

"You look so good today"

" Intimacy "

"How to read a book"

"Besieged City"

✅ Watch the documentary

" The world view in the study "

" Hexi Corridor 》

《 If the national treasure could talk 》

《First time in life》

《Pulse of the earth》

《Can't wait for the apology》

《Seven years of new life》

《Chinese doctor》

《The human world》

《Green Planet》

✅Watch TED talk

《How to find a job you love》

《Girls need to be brave, not perfect》

《How to become a confident person》

《Just focus for 10 minutes》

《Don't let anyone disturb you The rhythm of your life"

"What you tolerate is what you will be anxious about"

✅ Watch the debate

"Is being misunderstood the fate of the expresser" 2019 Chinese Debate Old Friends Competition

"People have/do not have the freedom to express prejudices 》2018 International Chinese Debate Invitational Competition

"Who is more important, news value or human ethics?" 2010 International College Debate Competition

"Young people should do addition/subtraction" 2018 Chinese Debate World Cup

"Involution is a false question/true Question" 2020 International Chinese Debate Invitational Competition

"Understanding is/is not required to empathize" 2020 International Chinese Debate Invitational Competition

✅ Watch high-quality variety shows

" Longing for Life "

"Nice to meet you"

"Thrilling The offer》

《 Informal Talks》

《 Talking to Strangers》

《 Thirteen Invitations 》

✅Listen to the Podcast

《Limited Culture》

《Out of Time》

《Three and Five Rings》

《 It’s all here》

《Jiang Sida》

《Random Fluctuation》

✅Watch the open courses of famous schools

Harvard University’s open courses: “The Meaning of Life” “Chaos, Games and Delay of Determinism”

Stanford University’s open courses: “How to Speak” "Experience the world through photography"

Peking University open courses: "Art Appreciation" "History of Chinese Philosophy"

✅ Watch movies

" Spring in the Cowherd Class "

"Before I Met You"

"Thelma and Louise"

"The Stormy Road to Harvard"

"Never Compromise"