1. Many people secretly criticize me, calling me tactful and sophisticated, but I only know one thing. If I don’t protect myself, no one in this world will protect me.
2. Later I realized that speaking different words and showing different attitudes to different people is a very valuable ability. rather than hypocrisy.
3. In this life, you will never be able to make enough money, and your heart will never be exhausted. In this case, why not live happily? The days are getting shorter and shorter every day, and the time is getting shorter and shorter every year. If you have money, live a good life. If you don’t have money, take care of your mood!
4. In fact, there is nothing that cannot be let go. As time goes by, when you look back, you will find that the things you once thought you could not let go are just a springboard in life to make you grow.
5. The biggest mistake people make every day is to be too polite to strangers and too harsh to close people. If you change this bad habit, the world will be peaceful.
6. Comment less on other people’s affairs, review and clean up your own affairs more, do a good job for yourself, and use the extra energy to help and care for others, and try to be kind. Otherwise, you are just a person joining in the fun, not a good medicine.
7. When a person is not on the same frequency as you, even if every word you say makes sense, no matter how much you talk to him, it will be nonsense. And, the more reasonable you say, the more annoying he will find you.
8. In this world, all people with true temperament always have different ideas. ——Shen Congwen
9. People who make you trouble are here to help you; people who make you suffer are here to save you; people who make you resentful are the nobles of your life; people who make you hate are here. To help you grow; they are all different aspects of yourself, another version of yourself.
10. Only when you bite your tongue do you know that you can't be too anxious when eating. Only those who love their mistakes know that they can be together without persistence. All experiences are inevitable. If you don't fall, you will never know where the smoothest road is.
11. You don’t need everyone to understand you to do things, you just need to do your duty and have a clear conscience; you don’t need to be liked by everyone to be a person, you just need to do your best and have peace of mind.
12. People can be in chaos, but their hearts cannot be dirty. You can seek rewards for things, and don't care about people. Those who can tolerate will not be hurt, and those who can suffer will not suffer. Someone owes you, and you can't. Someone will compensate you, and God will give you back what you have lost.
13. Kindness and love are free, but not cheap. Your kindness needs to be a little bit sharp, your love needs to be a little bit rational and discerning. After all, not everyone is worthy of them.
14. When there are many people, keep your mouth shut. If you talk too much, make too many mistakes, and have too much right and wrong, you are asking for trouble; when there are few people, take care of your heart! Having a lot of delusions, delusions, and suffering is asking for trouble. Keep your mouth shut when in a group, keep your heart when alone. The most important thing in self-cultivation is to have a pure heart, and the most important thing in dealing with the world is to be cautious in speaking.
15. In this world, there is no one-and-done, perfect choice. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moon at the same time, you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time, and you cannot have all the benefits. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and only then can you gain something. You have to learn to accept the incompleteness and sadness of your life, and then be at peace.
16. If you want to live a few more years, remember: life is short, and every day you live is one less day. Don't waste time on unhappy things. Look away and bearish, there is no obstacle that you cannot overcome.
17. Life requires a good attitude. If you don't like others, it's because you don't have enough self-cultivation. At the moment when a person is angry, his IQ is zero, but returns to normal after a minute. The key to human elegance lies in controlling one's emotions. To hurt people with your mouth is the most stupid behavior.
18. If someone loves you, let him love you. If you send me flowers, thank you. If someone asks you out, consider it. In this world, if others treat you well, they are unlikely to hurt you. Only if you are kind to others will they come back to bite you again and again, causing you pain. Therefore, let others love you confidently and boldly, but love others cautiously.
19. Have the courage to give up something for the life you want. There is no justice in this world, and you will never get the best of both worlds.
20. A journey, if you walk for a long time and still can’t see hope, then change the direction; if you have thought about something for a long time and you are still obsessed with it, then choose to let it go; if you insist on a way of life for a long time, you still can’t. If you don't feel happy, then choose to change.
21. When you put down your dignity to make money, it means you are sensible. When you use money to earn back face, it means you have succeeded. When you can make money with your face, it means you are already a figure. When you still stay there drinking, bragging, pretending to understand nothing, and only love the so-called face, it means that this is what you will do in your life.
