was sorting out information recently and saw some photos and notes of myself from a few years ago. I recall that I always treat people sincerely, but I am always a lonely figure in the dark night, bumping along the way, running, working hard, panicking, and struggling. The me now doesn't know what to say to the me in the past, I just opened my mouth and don't know where to start. Halfway through the year, maybe think about what you can do in the next six months, and what you want to say to yourself in half a year.
1: Cherish time.
Live every day and every hour well. Don't waste time, time is gone and can never come back. When you are bored, just relax by yourself and think more about what you have to do today and how many tasks you have yet to complete. Don't let a day pass and find that there are still tasks that have not been completed. Leaving it for the next day is not a good habit and feeling.
2: Stay in a good mood.
Now that you have time, you should make yourself happy. If you are unhappy, you can only spend the rest of the time in a daze, gathering up strength and courage to get out of the gray. Try to stay away from people who cause you internal friction. Hide your own kindness and happiness. I have seen too many people who become ferocious when seeing others happy.
3: Do what you like.
When I have time, I am happy, so I can quietly do the things I like. Stay away from good phones, stay away from good people, and don’t let them interrupt your progress. I meet some people, and I particularly envy them that they can get rid of the trivialities and worries of life, and live freely and freely on the road to their passion. I don’t know if there are super-light spaceships on the earth now, but in them, I see energy that transcends time and space.
4: Think more about what to do in the future and what not to do
Wang Xing said: "Most people are willing to do anything to avoid real thinking." I don't know if this is the inertia of thinking caused by education from childhood. How to do things well is something that can be improved through deliberate practice, and it is also a long road. This is a matter of specific battles. What to do and what not to do is what kind of life path you want to choose. This is a matter of strategy. If the strategy fails, the rest of the battle will be a failure, no matter how hard we try or how beautifully we fight. A good strategy can take you to a higher level now. Think more about the level you can reach and what strategies you need to implement.
5: Find a girlfriend
In life, besides life and death, there are two major things left: one is what to do during the day, and the other is who to spend the night with. One is my mission, and the other is my love. If you have not found your calling but have a true love, you can close the door and talk to her about this crazy world at night, and laughter can take away the feeling of loss. Most of them will be like a seed, growing vigorously in the dark soil. If you find your mission, but don’t have your true love, and close the door at night, leaving only shadows and loneliness, it’s easy to get lost in the darkness during the long night. Although I don’t have a girlfriend yet, it’s okay. There are so many books and videos now that teach others how to love, study hard, and wish everything goes well.
6: Develop good living habits
There are always many things coming to you in life. There are things you want to do and things you don’t want to do, which makes people overwhelmed. Not having a good body will make people feel helpless. The body, it cannot be emphasized enough, is the number one priority. Half an hour of exercise every day, a healthy diet, and adequate sleep are the foundation for maintaining good health. Don’t lose these good living habits. If your living habits are occasionally interrupted, you should pick them up quickly.
Okay, the above six points are what I will tell myself now half a year later, do it well. I hope that after half a year, I can drink a second cup of half-price milk tea and listen to the midnight bell of the New Year together.
