has read such a comic.
What was the room alone looking for? The huge room was empty, and there was only the meager light emitted by the flashlight.
(The picture is from the Internet, delete if infringes) This room is like a human brain. It seems to be able to hold everything, but in fact it traps a person in it.
Heidegger once said:
We only recognize what we want to recognize.
When we agree with something or a point of view, they are blocked in the room of self-cognition.
We will only passively accept it and will not think about anything else.
But the more you wander in your room, the more you are trapped in the maze of cognition and cannot extricate yourself.
In this era of information, knowing where knowledge is is far more important than holding knowledge.
Don't let your cognition become a sunken cost.
There was a topic discussed on the Internet: In today's society, what kind of people are most likely to arouse others' disgust?
One of the answers said:
People who hate "dad-style" preaching the most are out of reality and like to preach the superior, but they do not provide any substantial help to others.
The so-called " dad-flavor " preaching is actually a kind of "master" idea that is good at being a teacher.
uses self-awareness to influence others and judge right and wrong with an inherent attitude.
For example, Wanshantang in " Happiness to Wanjia ".
Although he is the secretary of Wanjia Village, he always uses his identity to suppress others and educate people with his past cognition.
The son bullied others at the wedding, and he thought it was a local custom.
not only does not feel ashamed, but instead accuses He Xingfu, who is defending himself.
Wang Qinglai was dissatisfied with the land compensation and wanted to argue with him, but he taught Wang Qinglai a lesson as an elder and started to beat him and hospitalized.
But he doesn't think these are big problems.
In Wanshantang's cognition, younger generations cannot embarrass the elders; conflicts in the village cannot cause trouble outside the village; even if the leader is wrong, he should not apologize.
He is determined to develop Wanjia Village, but his ideas and ideas lag behind and his cognition is solidified.
is unwilling to accept new things, and eventually loses his life in the evening and leaves the market sadly.
In fact, the reason why people hate Wanshantang is not only because it confuses the boundaries between human feelings and the rule of law.
even more because he always has a "good teacher" attitude.
Educating others condescendingly is actually a show-off.
The more you feel good about yourself, the harder it is to face up to things other than your cognition. In the end, the road became narrower and narrower.
Ji Xianlin said:
people are most afraid of rigid thinking as they get older.
Many times, what restricts a person's development is not the environment or ability, but the self-centered cognitive model.
The wise know the truth, and the wise be careful in speaking.
Saving others with one's own heart is the best way to quit being a good teacher.
Behavioral Economics , there is a " endowment effect " .
Once a person owns an item, his evaluation of the value of the item will increase significantly.
Compared to "having", they are more afraid of "losing".
Similarly, if a person recognizes something, then this view will be rooted in his own cognitive system. The value of this matter will exceed that of this matter itself.
"Liezi·Shuofu" has a story:
A man lost his axe and suspected that it was stolen by his neighbor.
So I saw the man walking like a stealing an axe; his face was like a stealing an axe; his speech was like a stealing an axe; he was like a stealing an axe; he was like a stealing an axe no matter what he did.
Not long after, he found the lost axe and felt that his neighbor's behavior was not like a thief.
In fact, if the axe is lost in the future, he will still think it was stolen by his neighbor.
Because many times, what affects our judgment is not experience and evidence, but those deeply rooted "self-righteousness".
As Xu Zhiyuan said in "Pretense":
Most people are bound in their own perspective and would rather accept prejudice to cover up the truth than admit their own prejudice.
people are often like this. Once they determine what the matter is, they will continue to follow this idea.
Even if the facts are not the case, they will prove their own views through imagination.
Danish film " Hunting ", that's it.
The protagonist is charged with assault on a girl because of his friend’s daughter’s lies.
Friends distrust, ex-wife despised, and even their beloved dogs were killed by residents.
The malice that residents were about to emerge made him on the verge of collapse at any time.
No one is willing to believe it even if the police proved innocent in the end.
Of course, the villagers are not crazy, they are just blinded by their inherent cognition.
The villagers all think that their judgment is not wrong, but this judgment is mostly based on their own subjective consciousness.
is not unimportant to them, but they believe more in the "correctness" in their hearts.
Therefore, self-righteous people will never see the truth and will always be trapped in the "truth" they recognize. This is the most terrifying thing.
Tagore said:
The easiest thing in the world is to blame others; the most difficult thing is to recognize yourself.
Losing judgment and being self-righteous will harm others and yourself.
In life, people are prone to fall into information cocoon , only care about what they know, thus losing the ability to look at problems in all aspects.
This will cause you to have too high superiority and lead to your cognitive imbalance.
If a person only thinks about problems in his own house, it will only make him feel confident and arrogant, thus exposing his ignorance.
Liang Qichao once said: "People's opinions advance with learning and move with the times."
Sometimes, when you go out and walk, meet some people, and experience some things, you can better improve your outlook on life.
Because truly powerful people are lifelong learners.
They will not work behind closed doors, but will make a big deal and make appointments, allowing their thoughts to continue to grow and improve, and thus meet a better selves.
So sometimes people can't take it too naturally. Things in the world are far more richer than what they think.
"Genius is on the left, madman is on the right" There is such a conversation:
How big is the world?
If thinking is a wall, the world is on the other side of the wall.
What kind of thinking we have, what kind of life we will have.
1. Stay rational and stay sober
" motto joint " says:
has talent and a slow nature, and it must be a great talent, and is wise and harmonious. This is great wisdom.
People should maintain a clear understanding in their lives, not be too indulgent, and not be too complacent.
Recognize yourself and live truly is far more important than unrealistic self-righteousness.
Many times, soberness and rationality make us not confused about the appearance of things, but see deeper problems.
so as to recognize being a person and do things rationally.
2. Continuous learning and continuous improvement
As the saying goes: "If you are new every day, you are new every day."
Life is a process of walking through narrow doors. If you stagnate, your views and cognition will become narrow and self-supporting.
Only by constantly learning and making progress can a person constantly iterate his thinking and keep up with the times. Continuous learning and progress will surely bring more unexpected surprises and gains.
3. Broaden your horizons and broaden your horizons and broaden your horizons and open up your horizons. There is a saying that says: "The so-called vision means that you will never be able to talk about colors with blind people; the so-called pattern means that you will never be able to talk about the sky with short people. "
The difference in vision and pattern often indicates the difference in thinking and cognition.
A person's cognitive level depends on the height he stands. If you want the road of life to be unique, you must climb higher mountains and browse more magnificent scenery.
Treat exploration as a habit and change as the norm. As you move forward bit by bit, refresh your habitual cognition to get rid of the old shackles.
Only in this way can we have flexible thinking and broader horizons, and win our own world in this ever-changing world.
I remember that there was a plot in " Man in Black 2".
In a locker at the Central Station, there was a group of alien villains living. The light of their faith, but It is the light emitted by human watches.
The protagonist thinks that these alien little people live in the locker, which is so pitiful, but his colleague immediately kicks open another door.
The outside scene is amazing. It turns out that humans are just villains living in the "locker".
Although this is just a movie, our lives are not the same in many cases, trapped in the house we know, a leaf is blinding, and no one sees Thai Mountain , you see fireflies like the bright moon, and you feel that the hills are like majestic.
But life should not be like this, and cognition and thinking should not be limited to this time and place.
Only by seeing all things in the world can you know that you are small; only by walking through the complexity of the world can you know that the truth is infinite.
For more than one life, I hope we can all recognize the limitations of our cognition, so as to walk out of the door of thinking and see the sky full of galaxies.
